I have been wearing a brand called Softi in South Africa. They are cheaper premium nappies I can get at Dischem. Different nappy brands are very limited in South Africa. We don't get abdl nappies like the rest of the world. And to import abdl nappies is way to expensive.
I was wearing mediums with the tapes just coming around and taping onto the landing strip. It's a stretch. However they grip well. These nappies are cloth like so retaping isn't a problem.
Now I have gone a bought their large size and they feel really big on me. The tapes can be taped literally past each other.
The front panel goes nearly past my belly button. Which includes the absorbent material.
So the large is not nearly as discreet as I would like it.
Whereas the medium is lower down and more discreet but more difficult to tape.
I never thought I would be a person in between sizes.
How do I fix this?