I think you have a Urge incontinence.
In this condition, the bladder muscle (detrusor) seems to become overactive and squeeze (contract) when you don't want it to, as well as stress incontinence, urgency incontinence also occurs because of overactive bladder, good news can also be cured effectively.
Urge incontinence is caused due to damaged nerves send signals to the bladder to contract, though the bladder is not full. This is what causes the urge to void urine frequently, usually more than 8 times during 24 hours. Frequent urination at night is also a symptom of urge incontinence, which is waking up to urinate at least 2 times or more during the night.
Urge incontinence is the type of incontinence is most common in men. Although urge incontinence is more common in older people, but this is not considered part of the aging process.
may this help you.
Max