Few nights ago my Wife and i were discussing things and she brought up my nappies.
To cut a long story down. I had said to her that i have noticed that we arent as close as we used to be. I'm talking emotionally and physically.
it turns out that it isnt really about me and wearing my nappies. its more to do with the bad experience she had with our two girls.
Basically when they were babies they had reflux. What this is that they couldnt hold down their milk and continuously be vomiting. if they werent doing that they would be screaming their heads off because of the amount of pain they were going through from the stomach acid burning their throats. Poor girls.....Poor Wife........
So my wife had to handle all this stress while i was at work. Not so nice.
The relation between my nappies and my two girls is that the baby cream or powder i use (and no matter what brand i use), this brings all those memories back for her.
For most people including myself those smells brings me good and happy memories of my girls when they were little but for my wife complete opposite.
I now understand her a bit more which im really happy about.
It does put me in a difficult position though..... I want to help her not to remember those memories but at the same time i want my nappies.
I have been good i think and not worn to bed and when she gets home, if i have a nappy on will finish using it then take it off and not put another one on or if its nearly finish, as soon as she gets home i go take it off.
I'm not sure how else i can help her and still have my time. What do you think?