GoodnitesFan97 said:
What do you think is the best diaper to wear to bed if you're an ABDL or TDBL?
My opinion is Goodnites because the sides are stretchy, have good graphics, and they can hold a lot especially at night.
I consider bedtime to be the best time to pad up thick and comfortable. Graphics don't matter much under cover, and so for me anyway the "medical look" of some diapers no longer matters for overnight. Capacity, comfort, and since I sleep on my back with my hands on my hips, I need one that has a comfortable feel to the front. (I try to avoid hard plastics and tapes that poke my wrists) Similarly, waistband elastic isn't as important overnight. So the Abena Xplus 4's work very nicely.
I've got a good selection here though, so I mix it up. I don't usually wear the same diaper two nights in a row. This morning I woke up in a DCA Kitten. Of course if you don't intend to wet overnight, that changes your options quite a bit. Me OTOH, I only very rarely wake up dry, and often have my high capacity diaper well-used by morning, so something as thin as a goodnight would be a terrible choice based purely on capacity.
But..... I do have to somewhat take back what I said about looks, at least when I sleep in on a Saturday morning. I
always need to tape on a high capacity diaper Friday night, and usually go for one that will look good later. Then in the morning, wake up slowly and kick off the covers, and just lay there for awhile, and enjoy waking up in a better looking diaper.