So my family is very splintered right now after my brother was arrested for setting his ex-fiances house on fire, at the time he was living with my sister and her fiance.
Since he was arrested my sister and her partner seem to be playing the victim role, they feel used and taken advantage of, and are happy to see all the punishment handed at him that anyone could throw.
Meanwhile my mom is doing what I guess a mother should do and supporting him through this, she had him bailed to her house, but was struggling financially with the extra person, and everytime she would post on FB about her struggling my sister was would start arguing with her about how it is all my brothers fault and she didn't have to bail him there.
While on a third front his ex partner, mother of my nephew, the one whose house he set on fire has been really mature about the whole thing, there are days I think she hates him, but most of the time just hates what has happened and think it all is a really sad situation but mom will post things on facebook with the implication that my nephews mother will turn him against his dad, I know this won't happen, she has stated numerous times that when he is old enough (he's not even a year old) He will know who his dad is, and it will be up to him whether or not he wants anything to do with him. So then her and my mom will start arguing.
And today he was in court, pleaded guilty and was remanded in custody until sentencing, Mom was heartbroken, His exe was upset and my sister puts on Facebook, feeling relieved.
As for me, I don't feel a thing eitherway, He stood by my side when I went through the system, and I will return the favor, but emotionally and this is quite a normal thing I feel absolutely nothing, no hate, anger disappointment, sadness, relief, happiness no nothing. and I try not to get involved in this drama because I don't particularly care... I know it sounds heartless to me to, this whole thing is like a passing fancy and then I'll move onto something new.
But I do feel that My sister and her partner are well out of line, yes he broke your trust boohoo get over you don't need to be such douches about it.
Mom, yes your struggling to pay for an extra person, but really this whole it's his ex who caused all these problems and is going to turn their son against his dad is like sit down and shut up about things you know nothing.
Is my sister and her partner wrong, is my mom wrong, is his ex wrong am I wrong?