Hey, I was looking for some insight on my thoughts.
A little back story: my girlfriend of over a year has tried diapers with me in the past, but she's told me it's not her thing. She's basically said its disgusting in her opinion, and dislikes the thought of wearing her own pee. She's okay with me wearing but she gets a grimace when she (affectionately) slaps my butt and hears a *thump* of padding. I've recently stopped wearing around her since I know she's not too into it.
Anywho, my birthday is coming up, and I made a joke that she could forego buying me anything if she wears a diaper for the whole day...surprisingly she has agreed, but rather reluctantly.
This is my issue: knowing that she dislikes wearing them, and probably won't enjoy it, is this really something I should ask of her? I just don't feel like I should be excited about this when I know she won't enjoy wearing them. It seems rude and unfair, to me, to ask someone to do something they won't like just to make me happy.
Then again, she would do it because she loves me and she really wishes to give me something I truly want for my birthday... So I can see both sides to this issue; I never want to pressure her into doing something she doesn't want to do, nor do I want to stop her if she genuinely wants to do it for me.
So what do y'all think? Also, if it does happen to go down, what diaper do you think would be good? I was thinking of getting the new pink rearz diaper. She loves pink, but she's already worn the DC Amor, and I'm not too fond of ASC's pink diapers. I would have grabbed the ABU Lavender if it weren't shipping out almost 2 weeks after my birthday :P