shortsub said:i am a urine incontinent man, who is struggling with the fact that a diaper is the best way to go... yet, I know once i start using 24/7 i might as well give into full use.
any advice?
shortsub said:Hiding is a good start.... lets face it... the smell is troublesome
NotTheAverageMan said:Well my experience may not be something which can be used as a general rule of thumb - however after I became incontinent (Accepted that I was incontinent) and have to resort to using diapers for handling my incontinence. I slowly started going in my diaper more and more simply because it was easier and due to the fact, that my diapers would be wet anyway regardless of me trying to do otherwise - a diaper can only keep odor down for max 8 hours, then it's done, and even if I tried to battle my incontinence I still have to change my diaper after a period, regardless of it being half used or total used. So I gave in and started using my diaper more and more, and actually realized that I was a lot more calm and relaxed about the fact that as a man in his start forties I'm back in diapers for good.
However over time my bowel movements have gone from once a day to two to three times a day, first one in the morning is regular however I have found that whenever I get something to eat, I'll have a bowel movement shortly afterwards - and then I have to rush otherwise I'll soil myself....
Note I have been 24/7 for two years approx I don't try to hold my pee anymore but let it happen when my bladder want's to.
So maybe 24/7 diaper use even only for pee, will eventually lead to fecal trouble also?
NotTheAverageMan said:Well my experience may not be something which can be used as a general rule of thumb - however after I became incontinent (Accepted that I was incontinent) and have to resort to using diapers for handling my incontinence. I slowly started going in my diaper more and more simply because it was easier and due to the fact, that my diapers would be wet anyway regardless of me trying to do otherwise - a diaper can only keep odor down for max 8 hours, then it's done, and even if I tried to battle my incontinence I still have to change my diaper after a period, regardless of it being half used or total used. So I gave in and started using my diaper more and more, and actually realized that I was a lot more calm and relaxed about the fact that as a man in his start forties I'm back in diapers for good.
However over time my bowel movements have gone from once a day to two to three times a day, first one in the morning is regular however I have found that whenever I get something to eat, I'll have a bowel movement shortly afterwards - and then I have to rush otherwise I'll soil myself....
Note I have been 24/7 for two years approx I don't try to hold my pee anymore but let it happen when my bladder want's to.