Hey guys, changed my username. (Windel is German for diaper)
We see these all the time, but I suppose it's one of those perennial issues among diaper lovers; how can we get our spouses to play along. Two years ago, before I told my wife, I would have counted myself lucky to have even continue to have a relationship with someone who just knew that I liked to wear diapers, but since coming clean, I have realized that most people probably don't find it as repulsive as I think they do. I mean, I imagine that most of us have had some shame issues with this whole facet of our lives since it is so unconventional.
I digress. Also, forgive me if this gets a little graphic. My wife knows about it and I would say is tolerant. She's okay with me wearing under pajamas every few months or so, and one time I was lucky enough to get some diapered foreplay, but that's it. Lately, I've been thinking more and more about asking her to play along a little more.
Now, how do I frame this?*I know everyone is different and has their own things that would speak to them or set them off.
She's been stressed out lately since her dad is sick, so I was thinking of suggesting she try it out and try a little mild regression as a means of decompression. For most ABDLs, diapers aren't always sexual, and I wonder if other people who, like my wife, are familiar with it would be receptive to the idea of chilling out in a diaper and a t-shirt, and watching some movies. Personally, when I'm sick, there's nothing I like better than putting on a diaper, footie pajamas, and watching Scott Pilgrim. There's nothing sexual about it at that point. It's just about me feeling better.
Any thoughts? Has anyone tried this approach?