A very close friend of mine identifies as asexual. She is very timid and shy to any form of affection from anybody and always has been for as long as I've known her (5+ years). I never really put the pieces together but I've been spending more time with her recently and she has very babyish tendencies. She likes to color in coloring books and talk like a small child without really realizing shes doing it. Granted, I'm a DL and not an AB/Little so those are some traits I consider an AB/Little having. In terms of her sexual kinks, she is very vanilla and can guarantee she has no idea what an AB/DL even is. Her life is very stressful; full time job and school and doesn't rely on anybody else to sustain her. 21 years old. As a DL who is demisexual myself, I have a slight feeling that she would enjoy wearing diapers as a stress relief or to self satisfy a desire she can't feel with other people. I already have a nonchalant way of bringing up the diaper discussion with her and very casually suggesting she may like to try it herself. We are both very trusting of each other and what each others thoughts are, so her response wouldn't be of disgust. I'm posting this here as an open discussion to toss ideas or advice around for a situation such as this or how to go about it.
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