I go to a small cafe four times a week and lounge around there for a bit, in that timeframe I almost always end up having an accident and having to go and get a change. I always throw the nappy into the bin and then move out quickly, content that no one will know it's mine. However, the bin is relatively small and doesn't have a lid, so anyone who clears it out will almost certainly notice the soiled garments, and I think the staff have worked out it's me who keeps putting them in. Today and the day before they seemed to be eyeing my butt as I came in and whispering about me to one another, I think I heard one of them giggle at me. The guy who took my order went out of his way to talk to me in a patronizing tone he'd never given me before, and most concerning of all, a waitress randomly told me that the toilets were open anytime I needed them.... (as if I had no idea and this was news to me...) I've gotten paranoid about this sort of thing a lot and I may just be looking too much into it, but I'm genuinely worried they've found me out, that was one of my favorite places to go and now I might not be able to hang out there without fear of humiliation... What do you guys think? and has anything like this happened to you?