what constitues someone as a sissy

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so im curious mostly what makes someone a sissy ? simple question for someone who is curious.
 
I have always considered, along with many people, for Sissy to refer to ABDL' males that enjoy mixing crossingdressing, wearing female clothes, and ABDL. Being a male LG tends to involve more on the regressive aspects of being a little girl, while a Sissy tends to focus more on the frilly and the ruffles, sometimes also still desiring breasts but ultimately still identifying as male in their day to day.

Many people who use the Sissy label also enjoy forced feminizition, having their partner or caretaker force them (with consent of course) into the girly stuff and for them to put some manner of show of resistance to it. Degration, humiliation, embarrassment tend to be feelings they enjoy in this context. This isn't always true though, but some might assume you do if you use the label due to it's prevalence.
 
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gigglemuffinz said:
I have always considered, along with many people, for Sissy to refer to ABDL' males that enjoy mixing crossingdressing, wearing female clothes, and ABDL. Being a male LG tends to involve more on the regressive aspects of being a little girl, while a Sissy tends to focus more on the frilly and the ruffles, sometimes also still desiring breasts and full womanhood.

Many people who use the Sissy label also enjoy forced feminizition, having their partner or caretaker force them (with consent of course) into the girly stuff and for them to put some manner of show of resistance to it. Degration, humiliation, embarrassment tend to be feelings they enjoy in this context. This isn't always true though, but some might assume you do if you use the label due to it's prevalence.


i have alwas been confused as to wether i would come under this category or not as i do like some girly things. like some girly colours and the idea of boy girls from animes alwas make m jealous as there alwas sooo cute and adorable looking sissy boys. alwas made me wondered if i was jealous coz i wanted to be like them i guess, this probably makes no sence to you right ? i tend to think myself personaly that girly clothes are so much cuter than boy clothing lol.

does any of this apply to me possibly ? or am i just rambling ?
 
fluffyhuskyABDL said:
i have alwas been confused as to wether i would come under this category or not as i do like some girly things. like some girly colours and the idea of boy girls from animes alwas make m jealous as there alwas sooo cute and adorable looking sissy boys. alwas made me wondered if i was jealous coz i wanted to be like them i guess, this probably makes no sence to you right ? i tend to think myself personaly that girly clothes are so much cuter than boy clothing lol.

does any of this apply to me possibly ? or am i just rambling ?

Yeah, it does. It sounds like Sissy would be a fine label, identifying as a male but enjoying lots of cutesy sorta childish feminine crossdressing. It makes perfect sense. You're fine. ♥
 
gigglemuffinz said:
Yeah, it does. It sounds like Sissy would not be a fine label, identifying as a male but enjoying lots of cutesy sorta childish feminine crossdressing. It makes perfect sense. You're fine. ♥

so the answer is what ? your reply confused me lol ?
 
fluffyhuskyABDL said:
so the answer is what ? your reply confused me lol ?

Sorry, I mixed up two different sentences. It sounds like you are a Sissy, yeah. If you want to be. ♥
 
gigglemuffinz said:
Sorry, I mixed up two different sentences. It sounds like you are a Sissy, yeah. If you want to be. ♥

mabee but its kinda embarressing ...... thinking about it now is makeing me blush profusely lol time to hide behind my plush or something hehe
 
fluffyhuskyABDL said:
mabee but its kinda embarressing ...... thinking about it now is makeing me blush profusely lol time to hide behind my plush or something hehe

Hehe, I mentioned many Sissy's enjoy being embarrassed though. Hehe. ♥ ;)
 
gigglemuffinz said:
Hehe, I mentioned many Sissy's enjoy being embarrassed though. Hehe. ♥ ;)



hey stahp it already you meanie your makeing me embarrssed :p
 
I think gigglemuffinz has hit the nail on the head, though actually pounding nails into wood and building stuff is a macho male sort of thing to do. I've done carpentry while wearing my pink, Baby Pants training pants. It was such a paradox that the earth shifted in it's path around the sun.
 
The Transgender

Well,
Transgender man stands for Shemale, which means that men who act as women in living their daily lives. Shemale has another name, namely Sissy, Effeminate, Transvestite, Hermaphrodite and so forth. Why are there men choosing to be a transvestite? Of course this has an assortment of reasons. Following are the reasons a person chooses to live life becomes a transvestite although previously he was a real man.

The Reasons is:

- The reason for the incorrect body and genitals.
Many transvestites or bencong argues they actually are women but are born in a male form. They also claim that his instinct is that women want to live as a woman.

- Due to the economic problems.
To meet the needs of the economy could cause a person turns into a transvestite. This actually stems from the role of pretending to have money. From often take on the role as a transvestite or Sissy long into the habit and eventually make him real Sissy. What's worse he began to familiar and comfortable dressed as a woman.

- Due to the trauma.
It could also be because the man had been hurt a woman so decided to injure the same sex to change his appearance to look like a woman. Or maybe the man had experienced indecent treatment of his or any other person who makes choosing so transvestites so feel more comfortable.

- Due to environmental factors.
Environment has a profound influence on one's habits. Men who often hang out with a woman since childhood could have a feminine trait when the amount later. Not only that, a man who worked in a salon that serves customer many women a long time will make someone graceful like a woman. What's worse men are more comfortable when wearing clothes and dress up like a woman.

- The presence of gene mutations.
In the last medical hormones that cause men behave like women. This makes the gene mutation gene disorders in men, for example XXY genes, gene lady (X) is dominant, so that these men have abnormalities within the body.

That's all makes person become a Sissy.

Thanks
Max
 
MaxToddler said:
Well,
Transgender man stands for Shemale, which means that men who act as women in living their daily lives. Shemale has another name, namely Sissy, Effeminate, Transvestite, Hermaphrodite and so forth. Why are there men choosing to be a transvestite? Of course this has an assortment of reasons. Following are the reasons a person chooses to live life becomes a transvestite although previously he was a real man.

The Reasons is:



That's all makes person become a Sissy.

Thanks
Max

Oh gawsh, I absolutely know you're coming from the right place.. but this is actually super evolving LGBTQIA subject and a lot of this information is super out of date (a quick Wikipedia article read of half the terms you used would make such apparent) and accidentally (again, know this wasn't the intention) offensive. Because what you're actually describing in your post is a trans woman, and going about in a way that offends such an individual. I'm very sure that this had the best of intentions and I simply and trying to clear this misunderstanding up.

You use the term transgender man, that term means someone who was assigned female at birth but later discovered they were actually a male. What you were consistently describing in the post was a transgender woman, someone assigned male at birth but discovered that they were actually a girl... but this isn't what the OP is. (At least not from what they described.) Using the correct pronoun is very important when discussing trans individuals.

Shemale was a term developed by the porn industry to fetishize the concept of people who "looks totally like women but also had dicks". It is used exclusively in said porn industry and the use outside it is seen as derogatory. It is objectifying, dehumanizing, and actively simply an incorrect way to describe the type of individual you were discussing. Transvestite is actually pretty much the same term invented by the same industry, but is simply less immediately offensive due to it not being outright misgendering right in the name. Please still avoid using it in the manner you did.

Hermphordite describes a person completely separate from this situation, and has no relevant context here.

Sissy and Effeminate are fine when being used to exclusively refer to someone who still identifies as a man but enjoys feminine activities for whatever reason. The difference in language and use should be clear though.

I have to ask gently for you to please tread more carefully. I'm sure you intended to just help but in a support site it can be crucial that people hurting are given correct information.. especially when it comes to an already confusing field such as gender identity. The last thing you want to is hurt the feelings of someone you were trying to support. So it can be important to read up on terms and other things before speak as an authority about their definitions.
 
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Sorry if this offense you, Gigglemuffinz
This post doesn't intend to oppose the sissy, maybe it's true that it's all just a simply accidental, I'm write this from what I know was already outdated.

you're right, but there are many more who don't know the cause.

Really sorry.
Max
 
MaxToddler said:
Sorry if this offense you, Gigglemuffinz
This post doesn't intend to oppose the sissy, maybe it's true that it's all just a simply accidental, I'm write this from what I know was already outdated.

you're right, but there are many more who don't know the cause.

Really sorry.
Max

You're fine. This stuff can be SUPER confusing when you aren't involved in it, and I'm absolutely sure to the unaware it can be like stepping in a mine field. Don't beat yourself up about it! Your intentions were good! ♥ Thank you for apologizing though, it means a lot.
 
Another good resource is the article within adisc.org itself:
go to forums/discussions/articles/abdl/ and find the one on "sissy's and little girls".

Patty
 
So getting back to the original subject here, which seemed to be only about how to classify oneself without getting into why one is that way (which is why I think another mistake MaxToddler made was sending his original post in this thread to this thread instead of creating a new topic and sending it as the first message in that new topic; does anyone else agree?), I think I would fall under the sissy category. Because I like most of the cutesy feminine things like frills, lace, bows, floral designs, et cetera. I also like wearing these things. And when I dress up, I also like to wear/have breasts when I feel I have the time (I am trying to emulate a teenager who has developed fully). And when I do go about my daily life in public, I do so in my male form - at least for now (though this might change after Halloween, based on the reactions I get to my dressing up as a teenage girl and going out in public that way on that semi-holiday). But I do not desire forced feminization at all.

So what would others here say I am?
 
mercuryfan said:
So getting back to the original subject here, which seemed to be only about how to classify oneself without getting into why one is that way (which is why I think another mistake MaxToddler made was sending his original post in this thread to this thread instead of creating a new topic and sending it as the first message in that new topic; does anyone else agree?), I think I would fall under the sissy category. Because I like most of the cutesy feminine things like frills, lace, bows, floral designs, et cetera. I also like wearing these things. And when I dress up, I also like to wear/have breasts when I feel I have the time (I am trying to emulate a teenager who has developed fully). And when I do go about my daily life in public, I do so in my male form - at least for now (though this might change after Halloween, based on the reactions I get to my dressing up as a teenage girl and going out in public that way on that semi-holiday). But I do not desire forced feminization at all.

So what would others here say I am?

I know that my argument is less true and please don't be too upset, but honestly, i'm sure he didn't ask for the classification, he really wanted to know the cause.
he asks:
"im curious mostly what makes someone a sissy ?"

and also, I've never post "original post" in here, like you said:

"MaxToddler made was sending his original post in this thread to this thread instead of creating a new topic and sending it as the first message in that new topic"

Please, can you understand me?
I just wanted to explain what he wanted to know and sorry because I'm too honest and too careless in the act.

Thanks
Max
 
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I certainly would agree that if it was a mistake that you posted it here instead of in a new thread, that you did not make this mistake on purpose; I agree that you were just trying to help, considering the way you saw that original post in this thread. And maybe I shouldn't have referred to your first post here as "your original post in this thread", even though I thought I was being clear enough by using the "your" (as opposed to "the") at the beginning of that wording. As for the intention of the member who started this thread, I wasn't sure myself (which is why I made sure to only use terms like "I think" and "seemed to be" there), which is why I was hoping for help on this from other members here.
 
mercuryfan said:
So getting back to the original subject here, which seemed to be only about how to classify oneself without getting into why one is that way (which is why I think another mistake MaxToddler made was sending his original post in this thread to this thread instead of creating a new topic and sending it as the first message in that new topic; does anyone else agree?), I think I would fall under the sissy category. Because I like most of the cutesy feminine things like frills, lace, bows, floral designs, et cetera. I also like wearing these things. And when I dress up, I also like to wear/have breasts when I feel I have the time (I am trying to emulate a teenager who has developed fully). And when I do go about my daily life in public, I do so in my male form - at least for now (though this might change after Halloween, based on the reactions I get to my dressing up as a teenage girl and going out in public that way on that semi-holiday). But I do not desire forced feminization at all.

So what would others here say I am?

The question I'm leaning on is this when you describe yourself. You say you're "doing it in your male form" but.. that's some very specific wording you used. Do you still identify yourself, in your heart, as a male.. just one that likes to present themsevles visually as a female?

Or do you feel like a female who is forced to present as male for acceptance and hopes that your family will accept you and you can start presenting and being treated as female full time?

If it's the former, if you are comfortable being a male but like to present in very stereotyically feminine ways sometimes or even most of the time, sissy would be a valid label (even ignoring forced feminization, I tried to make sure that it was known that was a common, but not required aspect.. it's just pretty common in these AB circles amongst AB's whose interest in it is primarily sexual) if you consider yourself a female then I would personally call you a trans woman instead (unless you told me otherwise to not).

Ultimately in the end, what labels we hold onto will be a personal decision. There is general consensus as to what these things mean, but people will personally carve out what each meaning means to them. Despite everything I said, if you say you're a sissy.. that's all that should matter to anyone.
 
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