DloverUK said:
Your wife is being a bit selfish, but ultimately this is what relationships are like. You have to make sacrifices sometimes to keep the other person happy.
Relationships are more important than diapers. I would consider just taking the L and wearing around her less.
I'm urinary incontinent! I wish to Christ I could go without wearing, believe me there! Diapers are not the issue between us. It's her trying to live a lavish life without having lavish money. In other words, she's trying to live a Mercedes Benz lifestyle while making used Ford money! he fact she has cheated on me with a MINIMUM of 6 different guys didn't help either. I was exhausted when I wrote the above post, and failed to state that I was in Tn helping my best friend with his business (being paid more than 6k/month) trying to make desperately needed money for us when she began throwing away every bill with my name on it, racking up over 50k on her credit cards and screwing every scumbag she met. The one guy she was with was known to me. She sold him to me as being a guy she worked with. All 450+ pounds of him! He once asked me if I wanted to smoke meth!!! He told me that METH is an "amazing" drug that "makes you feel like god"! THIS is the kind of guy she's banging!
My marriage died when I got sick on Jan 18 2004 but I stayed married as I would not be here today IF I couldn't have my sons in my life every day. The other side of that coin is that after I got sick, NEITHER of us could had afforded to live on our own. She never made much money and my ability to earn was brutally interrupted. I still do average close to $100/hr, cash when I am able to work, but I have no clue how I will be feeling in 4 hours, let alone tomorrow. I can't plan ahead for anything outside of the hot weather months when I do as well as I am going to, but even then when my back pain flares, I often wind up incapable of even standing up let alone working.
I can't wait until she pays her debt off so I can kick her to the curb where she belongs! I also would very much like to meet a woman who isn't so shallow that she can't be bothered by her own boyfriend or husband stuck in bed, incapable of moving, who's been in the same diaper for 12-20 hours! I know (have been told) that I can have her charged for spousal abuse, but that would only add to her debt and prolong my misery of living with her.
I have to get....work is waiting. I'll try to add more information later. I can't believe all of the typos and missing information in my initial post about this. I get diplopia (eyes go out of alignment) when my headache gets to a 7/10 and when I wrote the initial post my headache was a solid 8.5-9/10. I see 2 of everything except what I see is one radically different plains, so I often can't really read what I am typing. Even now my headache is a solid 6/10 and it NEVER goes below a 4! I have a headache 24/7/365 though so long as it is below a 5 I can live with it. I have Hydromorphone for the headaches. That ought to give you a good idea of the severity. The best headache specialist in the USA can't figure this out, despite being under his care while hospitalized for 45 days in all and having had at least 25-30 spinal taps. I got a diagnosis of "New daily persistent Headache" which along with a $5 bill ought to be able to buy me a large coffee today! It's a useless diagnosis that several ER Dr's accused me of making up!!!!
OK. I have to jet. Later!
CptKirk
