If I wear BetterDry with booster, that is when I am at home or skiing. Nobody will notice or noticed. Under ski pants or onesie, every diaper is simply invisible.
Attends Flex is really best., very comfortable and good capacity. Reason for me discontinuing them is price( smaller reason) and velcro tapes falling when I needed to retape or refast diaper. ( main reason)
Otherwise very good product.
I am between sizes M and L but Attends Flex M10 fitted perfectly
When I have unberable utge to wear, solution is very simple: I go in into diaper, and after some time, I am calm and relaxed.
Sometimes me or my SO initiate sex, and after she diapers me. And I do same to her.
Nirvana
Best strategy is to wear diaper after beer drinking, not during. You can visit toilet if you want. Me and my SO wear diaper after some parties and nights out.
Alcohol relax muscles and it can be dangerous during night time if not in diaper.