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    Dealing with it long term

    Let me start off by saying I'm not incontinent so I can't fully understand your struggle but something to think about: do you think less of someone that takes medicine for high blood pressure? What about medicine for depression? No? Bottom line, there is nothing they can do about it. I could...
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    What Do Would You Tell Your Kids?

    Honestly, telling them they are needed for medical reasons wouldn't even be a lie at this point. My depression was bad enough for 30 days at an in patient treatment center and when I wear diapers, although a partime is sexual, it's more soothing than anything else and pulls me out of my funk. -...
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    How do you put on your diapers?

    I like to stand against a wall by pushing against the back part and bringing the front up through my legs.
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    What Do Would You Tell Your Kids?

    Let me just start off by saying how therapeutic this group has been. I no longer have a Facebook or any social media accounts because I just got so tired of people trying to live and show their "highlight reel" of i life that is very different from what they are currently experiencing. I feel...
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    fishy diaper incident with parents

    Ryan, [insert awkward/nervous/sigh of relief laugh] HAHAHA. I think we've all had these moments. As a matter of fact, I have pre-staged lies for different scenarios as to why I have diapers: Catch me buying them in the store? They're for a co-worker that is turning 21 and I'm buying them as...
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    What diaper are you wearing right now?

    Currently wearing a very jaded Tena Ultra Stretch.
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    Should i tell her?

    I dated my wife for 2 1/2 years before we were married. At about the one year mark, I felt a sense of guilt that I needed to share with her that I had a diaper fetish and was a DL (although I didn't know that that had a name at the time in 2007). That was the most vulnerable I had ever been...
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    Upset with Abena

    After years of depression and borderline ending my life, my wife has finally given me the green light on diapers so to say I'm excited about life again does not do it justice. After we had our talk, I hopped on Amazon and bought Tena Ultra Stretch briefs and am wearing one now. I have been...
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    Changing diapers

    I change myself but then again, my diapers are a point of anxiety with my wife so I flow solo all the time. There was ONE time in 2008, maybe a month after we got married that she actually wet one and I got to change her. I'll never forget that but that was 9 years ago:frown:
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    Hi

    Gina, I'm kind of with you on that one. I can't tell you how many phony emails I set up over the years to join various sites to keep my anonymity in the event that someone I knew (fat chance, I know) might figure out who I was.
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    Sexual Trauma

    Somewhat along those lines, Trevor, of society's perception but specifically my wife, her anxiety has ruined it for me. I'm married to two people: my wife AND my wife's anxiety. Trying to rationalize with an anxious person is like trying to get Hitler to have a beer with a Jew or a KKK member...
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    Sexual Trauma

    Yes, I DID and I WAS in a very specific unit that could do that. The first 5 deployments I shared a room with one other person and the last 5 I was in a room alone so I was able to do that. Were you over there at all? Name something specific about Tikrit, Iraq or Bagram, Afghanistan and you...
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    Sexual Trauma

    For some, myself included, diapers are a way to regress back to your childhood and almost in a way, a chance to relive the childhood that you never had that was never "molested" in the first place...it's not really about the diaper but going back in time. - - - Updated - - - I don't mind at...
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    Sexual Trauma

    Hey guys (and girls)! This is my first post on this group but I signed up to be around others that can somewhat relate to me. I've been with my wife for over 10 years (married for 8+) but diapers are a serious point of contention in our marriage. If we were ever to get a divorce (we don't...
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