You are overthinking. You are disposing of anything illegal or wrong, you are throwing away diapers. Put them in the trash bag and set them out for the pick up with any other trash you have. You are doing nothing wrong.
That is one moral. The other is that in reality most people do not care that you like wearing diapers and enjoying little stuff. Do not be scared to be yourself. Life is short, enjoy it.
Everyone is making more of this than needed. You don't owe her an explanation of why you don't want her just walking in or coming over when you are not there. Just say no. Take your keys back or change the locks. If she doesn't like it that is up to her to get over and not for you to worry about.
Ok. I guess I was a bit confused because in an earlier post you mentioned you were wanting the VA to finally acknowledge that all the nasty chemicals you worked with in the military could cause the incontinence. So if it is already linked by your doctor why do you have to or wanted the...
I was told recently that last month when over at a friend's place for Friendsgiving that when I was getting stuff out my truck that my friend new boyfriend saw the top of my diaper. Makes me wonder how many saw my diapers that day but didn't say anything.