Recent content by smnapp

With OAB / urge / bed wetting issues, diapers keep my anxiety about accidents at bay. I no longer worry about where bathrooms are located and how fast I might need to get to one.

I was a DL in my younger years. I developed an affinity for diapers in my pre-teen or early teen years (I can’t remember exactly when.) When I joined ADISC it was my DL interests that brought me here. It was the stories and adult diapers forums that I enjoyed as a lurker. As I aged (now in my...

I was a diaper lover for most of my life. Now that I have OAB/urge incontinence problems, I have become a diaper needer. As a DL when I was younger, I was always worried about someone catching me in a diaper. I am no longer concerned about that. Diapers are the best path forward for me. I need...

Welcome to ADISC! I am also a diaper lover that turned into a diaper needer.

I agree with this. I don’t know your comfort level with other people knowing about your situation. You said your friend knows (seems to be supportive) and they are like family. I believe it would be best to be honest with them. Maybe only few of them even need to know. That may seem...

I am not sure I have even exposed my diaper. Certainly not on purpose. I am incontinent and have reach a point of not really worrying if someone sees my diaper on accident. Sometimes my pants might ride low and my shirt high when working, reaching, or lifting. No one has even said anything, if...

I’ve had two relationships where I admitted that I wore diapers. The first was a girlfriend I told I liked to wear diapers. I was a DL back then. She was very accepting, even interested. She tried diapers with me and discovered she enjoyed wearing them. We had many intimate moments (sexual and...

Time is too valuable to waste time and energy in constant search of the nearest restroom. I find my anxiety is much lower as a result of accepting that I need to wear diapers.

It typically only have urinary issues. I had several fecal accidents a few months ago when I had a stomach bug. I was so sick it just have up getting out of bed to run to the bathroom. It was mostly liquid. I just changed and attempted to clean up when I could muster enough energy. Never trust...

I am sure if someone was really looking, they might suspect I was in a diaper under my pants. As stated previously, it’s really none of their business. The only time it enters my mind is when I am walking up stairs in front of someone while wearing a wet (potentially saggy) diaper. This is...

I rarely have diaper leaks. It does happen if I happen to push a diaper too far - usually due to poor planning and big than usual floods. I have enough control with OAB/urge incontinence that I can change without an accident. It is very annoying when I change and wind up peeing shortly after...

I change my own diapers. I am fully capable and see no reason to interrupt my wife for a relatively simple task. I can changed myself in just a couple of minutes and get the diaper to fit exactly how I desire (lots of experience), I am sure if I were temporarily or permanently unable to change...

I have reach a point of (almost) not worrying about someone hearing me change in a public restroom. I try to find a single person restroom, but they are not always east to locate. I spent 10 minutes searching for one in a shopping mall recently. As I approached the restroom area near the center...

Thank you!

I change my diaper while standing with my back against a wall. I get the best fit if I set the top tapes first. Then I can get the leg openings adjusted for a good seal and set the bottom tapes. I regularly use MegaMax and Better Dry. I know where the tapes should land on each for the best...