Definitely as everyone has said take it slow at first.. Let's your self go into little space when you know that you have privacy.. We are all here for support anytime you need it!! Welcome to the community and thank you for your service!!
I used to be really scared about wearing around others. But now I wear almost all the time. My advice would be try something a little thinner my go to lately has been magnifcos..
I always have a undershirt on sometimes a onesie. I have solid nonprinted ones. I buy my jeans a little bigger...
I got the fantasy purple and pink in a two pack sample and I liked them. I ordered the nursery pink and I wasn't impressed they are cute but ended up leaking.
Currently I have;
-Rearz Rebel, Princess, Safari, Spoiled, and Little Monster
-Magnifco
-Abu Space
-Crinklz
-Molicare
-Dotty Pink Pony
Im sure I forgot some
Its a local shop.. we go there alot to purchase brands we love without the shipping costs.. The owner is awesome and always fair! Just speaking from our experience