Bought a pack of the briefs a few months ago for the gf seeing she can't stand plastic backing And they seem to work well I haven't tried them personally the Velcro is very strong and they seem to hold quite a bit it's a high quality cloth backed medical grade diaper
Personally a feel like its best to stay out of the public eye and not call attention to ourselves. For me it's kinda a don't ask don't tell thing. But I think you're doing good for people already in the community I just wouldn't Focus on the general public.
Personally I get rid off all the hair below the belt regardless of being diapered or not. However I wouldn't recommend it unless you plan on making it a regular thing. I remember when I started it caused a bit of irritation for the first few weeks so it might ruin your special week.
In my opinion the plastic isn't any stiffer however my girlfriend doesn't like plastic because they get too hot for her but I can't tell the difference.
Just got a few pairs of Super Undies in the mail this morning and I'm super excited! Never had cloth diapers before anyone ever so I'm a little skeptical. Anyone ever use SU before and is there anything to know about cloth in general?
I second INCONTAL, a lot of diaper manufacturers have amazon stores and obviously the cheapest prices come direct from manufacturer. Some even use amazon fulfillment so they will come in a amazon box with an amazon address.