Recent content by Neonite

is it exhibitionism for a couple to kiss in public, or perhaps wear those outlandish gaudy 'wedding bands' on their left hands? everyone knows that means they have sex, there's no need for anyone to flaunt their sexual behaviour in our faces like that! what if a child sees it and finds out what...

you know, you do have a point. as we all know, the world at large must be rendered perfectly clean and safe at all times and in all spaces, especially in the case of transgressive public celebrations of widely disparaged and heavily-oppressed-until-very-very-recently sexuality, just in case a...

is 'these freaks just want to show off their fetish in front of OUR CHILDREN' not also hyperbole? can it not at least be true that there is maybe a friction between equally-valid but conflicting needs that has to be dealt with a little more delicately than writing off the weird stuff that has...

the kink at pride arguments everyone has decided we all have to have constantly are infuriating. this stuff is not and never has been about being respectable and clean. the reason why we have 'pride' at all in the first place is in response to the broader conservative society calling us all...

we've recently started recognizing a lot of things in ourselves a few months ago while trying to untangle our weird dissociative stuff, but i'm still not sure how or whether to actually try to get an official diagnosis. Like, for one, it'd definitely help with my own weird anxiety over it and it...

ah, congratulations!! getting to finally start hrt can be a huge relief, especially given how stressful it can be trying to get everything settled. i'm really happy for you!!

then yes, i would?

sure? most of those aren't situations i'd ever be in realistically, (don't like bars, mostly-a-lesbian, etc), but like, i am a girl, so those things would apply to me.

again, I don't think trying to pass means 'fooling' anyone necessarily. you're allowed to express yourself how you want to, because you're allowed to be what you want to. you can just be a woman, and that's okay.

It's definitely not immoral and honestly it's really not deceptive either. When I present as a woman, i'm not trying to trick anyone, i'm just trying to be myself. If anything, I'm being more truthful than if I presented as male. If someone said they considered me a man, they'd just be wrong...

? by that I meant, like, being trans is good! i spent a long time worried that i wasnt allowed to call myself trans or a girl because i didn't fit the way i thought trans people were supposed to be, and with the title of the thread i wasnt sure if that was what was going on. sorry for the...

we grew up in vegas, and we still definitely have a lot of nostalgia for the desert. as pretty as oregon and the pacific northwest are, being cold is awful, and sometimes it would be nice to have sun and dry air for a change. :v

It's absolutely not! Clothes don't have to be gendered, so if someone expresses or presents themselves in a feminine way, but is still comfortable identifying as male, that's completely valid. But also, there's no strict criteria you have to meet to ~be~ any specific gender. If you identify and...

In checked luggage it literally can't matter less. Diapers aren't anywhere near anything that they're actually supposed to be looking for, and if they somehow notice and feel awkward, that's just what comes with the territory of invading peoples' privacy, so. ¯\(ツ)/¯ I do make sure to not...

After wearing for long periods of time for a while, I've gotten really really used to not paying attention to things when i'm in diapers, but it's nowhere near an actual loss of control. When I'm not padded I have next to no problems, save for maybe more frequent urges for a day or two...