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Late 90s/early 00s Luvs. The ads. The smell. Just amazing.

I told my now wife early on (having had a prior relationship breakdown as I wasn’t comfortable telling her, and two others have a quite complex relationship with it). My wife isn’t into it but doesn’t mind that I am.

This is OP’s boss - not just a teammate with the same boss. Makes it even less wise

I was really good mates with my old boss (not remotely enough to bring up this). He’s still a good friend. And our friendship helped my career. But it also was not idea from an office perspective and it’s made me quite cautious about my dynamic with my direct and my boss. You need some gravitas...

Possibly - but your boss should not be extending that invitation to his team

I would not bring it up while you work there. I would be mortified if I met my direct report at a munch or found out he was an ABDL. I’m his boss. I do his appraisals, performance manage him, provide input on his salary and bonus. Knowing he is into the same fetish could massively muddy waters...

This seems like a dangerous proposal. Refusing ever to engage in role play because someone uses the safe word is, at best, toxic. I would actually ignore the book and its suggestions on this basis alone.

Old school cloth with pins atm… been a long time but liking it

I work in insurance. Never wear in the office. Occasionally wear when wfh. Totally irrelevant to my work.

Adam literally appeared to give an interview on Love in Brief. He leaned in - and deserves a lot of credit for that.

The VAT zero rating is for personal or domestic use by people who are disabled - people who aren’t disabled aren’t entitled to VAT exemption on the purchases. That is clear from the HMRC manual linked above (eg “their supply can only be zero-rated if it is made to: an incontinent person...

You can probably get away with it but it would be tax evasion, potentially fraud, and criminal.

Was speaking to a friend on video chat this morning and forgot was wearing dungarees (as I often do over a dip, they provide waistband cover). His wife said “are you wearing an apron?” I said “no they’re dungarees…” She said “oh, they’re super cute!” and mentioned how their baby has some. I...

Northshore megamax deliver in the UK. They are excellent and come in a range of colours.

Always thought I was totally isolated in high school but you’re probably right and there were others. A while ago I discovered an older alum from my school is into this (and quite open about it). So it might be more widespread in certain nerdy circumstances. I’m curious now about my own company…