Recent content by inconsurferdude

Thanks for the responses, I'm going to talk to her about it and realize now that I should have sooner.

How did she notice?

I've been padded (with increasing absorbency) since my partner and I met, and we've lived together for years. She's known for awhile now that I "sometimes" mess as well, but because of differences in our schedules (and because we don't really talk about my incontinence unless there's a good...

Nice that you both were able to laugh about it. My fiance doesn't really say anything about my incontinence at all unless she's been drinking, but even then she just makes playful comments. Still debating whether I need to tell her about extent of my IBS :/

Mostly medical-grade diapers, like Tranquility and Abena.

This is a good idea, when I tried BetterDry for daytime use I didn't really work them into my usual routine and so they always felt awkwardly bulky. I ended up using them for occasional nighttime use instead of M4 + booster. This is what I need to get past. Reading the comments in this thread...

Great question. I don't have any problems with M4's at night. I used to have occasional leaks, but adding a booster anytime I've been drinking beer in the evening immediately solved that. Same for when I wear them around the house on the weekend after several cups of coffee, I just add a booster...

I'm going to say the same thing as everyone else so far, that pull-ups aren't really designed for overnight. They're mostly for people with daytime urge incontinence in case they can't make it to a toilet in time. They don't hold alot and the people who wear them usually don't stay in them for...

Yes, they know that I wear for urinary incontinence. I'm not sure how many people know that I've started having bowel issues. One of my fiance's friends asked her about a pair of my plastic pants that was left on the dryer (her friend was getting something from the garage during a party). I'm...

Yeah, they were so much thicker than what I'm used to moving around in. But maybe I could get used to them. Although even M4's seem too thick for daytime use, and they were so much thicker than even that.

I can't imagine worse timing. Did you have to tell your wife what had happened, or did she already know?

Tranquility ATN's during the day and Abena Abri-Form at night, sometimes with an Abri-Let booster. I also wear plastic-backed Depends when I work out. I don't really have a choice, but now that I'm dealing with messy daytime accidents going a few days with "just" wetting feels like a mini...

Soaked M4 that I put on hours before my usual bedtime. Took a late nap thinking we were going to a NYE party. I need to change and shower, but S/O's asleep and that will wake her. So I'm in the living room hoping it'll hold a few more hours until she wakes up. Tired, but browsing the web to to...

Which ones do you use? I wear Abri-Let with my M4's at night sometimes, but they're a little too big (wide) for the ATN's it seems like.

Same, and lately I've been thinking I should look into something more absorbent. But eight?