Recent content by hoss

You're only 25, man, it's too early to give up for good.

Got a reply from Cuddlz, apparently that design isn't in production anymore... despair.

Jeez, that's annoying. Not really fond of exclusive merchandise, but I guess it's good for sales. I'll check and see if there's any at the local Targets.

Cute! And I've always wanted a stuffed animal hammock.

What started out as casual shopping turned into a real ordeal... I want to buy a NUK classic bottle with this pattern: Any cap color or attached teat is ok, the important part is the model+ design. I can't find it for sale anywhere -- even places that say they sell it have an "actual colors...

Browsing pacifiersrus, wishing these were more affordable so I could experiment and see what I like. I know you get what you pay for, but, Jesus, that's 50 dollars for a pacifier.

TL;DR version: My parents didn't hug me enough, so I grew up into a sad pervert.

I think the most important thing is to not stop trying. It's a lot easier to unintentionally build up an idea of a perfect mate when you aren't grounded in reality.

@blondiewolf, this is the first I've heard of there being pacifiers bigger than a NUK 5, and boy am I glad about that. Even as a manlet, the NUK 5 feels too small for my mouth; I like it well enough but it doesn't stay in place unless I'm actively working at it, which is pretty much the...

@caitianx, that's a cute setup you have going on, with the toys hanging off the rails. I don't want any "proper" baby furniture at this time, but I've always been drawn to the security small, efficient rooms, and to beds like this and this, where it's like an entire room compacted into one...

I've always wanted a bed with a curtain of some kind, but I've never thought about bed rails before. Maybe I'd like those too.

Where do you look for people who're into ABDL as a "lifestyle", though? Are there any established, dedicated places for that kind of thing?

There doesn't seem to be a common distinction between ABDLetc. the fetish (more common) and ABDLetc. the "lifestyle" (less common), which makes it frustrating for people like me and you to find people. I don't have any solutions to offer because I only recently accepted this part of myself; I...

I think it's normal to feel differently about things in different contexts. Like, you wouldn't want to discuss your bathroom habits in public with a stranger, or drop your pants and do your thing on the sidewalk, but I doubt anyone's ashamed just of the fact that they urinate and defecate...

Same here, minus having told anyone IRL. I feel like it'd be easier if it was purely sexual, for me, but it runs a lot deeper than that, and it's the stuff I have to accept alongside it that eats me up. I haven't had any negative reactions from people who do know and I don't expect any in the...