Looks like I was right after all.
You're on this site for the same reason I am... support. Don't expect much.
I have a neuromuscular disorder. When triggered, it causes urinary incontinence, requiring diapers 24/7. When not triggered it causes OAB, requiring diapers at bedtime. Also, I have chronic colitis from radiation (cancer). Unlike urinary incontinence, chronic colitis keeps me at home when acting up.
Even in the Incontinence Sub Forum, much talk is not about incontinence or between people with incontinence. There are few here with incontinence. For all the AB/DLs on these boards it's best to just let them have their discussions... it is an AB/DL/IC Support Community. Being incontinent, we may be the minority, but I have learned from the Diapers forum (ABU Simple is the best disposable I've used). And I have had some meaningful interactions with others that are incontinent.
Don't let other's on here make you crazy... participate here where it will do YOU good.