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    Hey, prettige Kerstdagen ;p

    You having a good time with your family/friends/"little" girl?
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    As for the make-shift diapers, I made mine out of plastic bags, a few rolls of toilet paper and some tape. I put a lot of work into making them look as real as I could. They looked and felt okay but the absorbtion sucked; I'm glad I got the real thing now =p

    Well lucky you, you made the both of you happy :p
    R
    Ah, I see, well I think that if your practice is limited to the play-dates that it may take a little longer but you can practice outside of those play-dates.

    Over the years you've ingrained into your subconsious that when you have to pee you have to go to the bathroom and that you're really only supposed to go on the toilet (and maybe the shower). Peeing anywhere else will be hard unless you like really have to go.

    However, you don't have to be in diapers to practice with overriding your subconsious. You just want to "learn" that it's okay to pee in other places than the bathroom. Like, you could try to pee in odd (private =p) places, like your room for example (use a jar or bottle or something).

    Once you can trick your mind in letting go it doesn't matter if you're on the toilet, wearing a diaper or just wearing normal pants, you'll be able to start peeing anywhere.
    R
    Ah, that's good to hear. Gives me hope that there might actually be a girl out there who'd be willing to accept my odd desire for diapers =p

    I suppose everyone has different needs as an abdl, it's nice how the two of you can fulfill those needs for eachother.

    And yeah, using diapers for their intended purpose can be surprisingly hard at first but it will get easier with practice. You have to override your subconsious that it's okay to go while you're not on the toilet. Just wear and drink a lot, it'll get easier fast. I had been using makeshifts on and off for quite a few years before I got my first real adult diapers so I was already quite used to just letting it go.

    Hmmm, so I guess I can conclude that you succesfully turned your girlfriend into an abdl or is it too soon to make that assumption?
    R
    Heya, how have you been? Are things still going well between you and your girlfriend?
    R
    Hey, so how are things going between you and your girlfriend? All heading in the right direction or is it still a bit too early to tell?
    R
    #3

    Be sure to let her know that whilst abdl-ism certainly isn't mainstream, it is nothing bad either and does not have to be a big part of the relationship if she doesn't want it to be. The two of you will have to make compromises whilst respecting eachothers boundaries. There's nothing wrong with having seperate interests so some abdl activities could be just things you do by yourself without your girlfriend being involved.

    And again, make sure she knows how much you appreciate her trying to accept this and that you know it is difficult for her. Make it very clear that your abdl interests do not change who you are. Make sure do you do not forget about her needs, especially if this abdl-ism topic is on her mind a lot. Maybe have a romantic evening with a candle light dinner (if she likes that ofcourse) or some other activity you know the both of you will enjoy.
    R
    #2

    Once you have a better idea of what your abdl-side means to you, you and your girlfriend can start to figure out what boundaries she has when it comes to participating. You'll have to find a healthy balance between abdl related activities and your normal relationship with her. During the process of figuring out her boundaries you have to pay very close attention to how she feels and reacts. From what I've read in the topics she posted she seems to have trouble saying "no" so it'll be partly up to you to see when she's not comfortable with something and making it very easy for her to say "no".
    R
    #1

    I see, I've read (well skimmed over) the topics she made and I have to say you're really lucky to have such a loving girlfriend (be sure to let her know that you really appreciate all her efforts on here!).

    Your girlfriend seems to be really confused at this moment, from what I've read she really wants to accept your abdl side but she is struggling, struggling because she doesn't know what it is she will have to accept.

    It is great of you that you want to respect your girlfriends wish of not ordering diapers yet but your feelings towards diapers will most likely never go away. I think you really should talk with her and tell her that you want to order some diapers so that you both get a better feeling of what you're up against. I don't think it'll be good for your relationship if you keep such a big "unknown" between the two of you for much longer, especially seeing as your girlfriend is now actively trying to accept it.
    R
    Hehe, I'm fine, just haven't really been very active on ADISC lately =p
    R
    Hey, how have you been?

    Have you made any new discoveries about your abdl side?
    Cheers! I try to keep an honest mind when posting... but sometimes the sarcasm monster has to come out!
    R
    (part two, stupid 1000 character limit =p)

    You could also take a look at euroDL, that site is operated from the Netherlands so that could make communication a lot easier. However, I haven't ordered anything there so you might want to do a little research about that site first, perhaps send them an email about the sample packs offered on there orso.

    Have you let your girlfriend read some of the information on this site (or any other decent site about abdls) yet? It might make her feel more at ease if she knows that it's a completely harmless fetish/lifestyle and that you're not some creep-in-the-making.
    But then again, I guess it just is very weird to someone who doesn't have any feelings towards diapers etc.

    Goodluck =p
    R
    Heya, you're welcome ;p

    Nope, I haven't ordered anything there yet, I plan on doing so in the future though when I get the chance (as in, when my parents + brother are away on vacation for a while). They really should look into getting a properly translated site though, the part German, part English and part Dutch doesn't really make it look like a profesional site hehe.
    I think the people at Save might object to processing such a small order (assuming you're only get a sample pack and nothing else) which then has to be shipped from Germany. I am not sure about shipping costs etc. but that might be something to keep in mind.
    R
    Hey,

    It's a good thing that you're able to talk to your girlfriend about this.

    I think it's important that you try to figure out what it means to you, as a person, seperate from the relationship with your girlfriend as this is probably a very personal thing. Once you know what it means to you, you can try to figure what it would mean for your relationship.

    If you figure out that this whole abdl thing is a real part of your life and something you don't want to ignore/surpress then you will need to figure out if your girlfriend would be accepting of that side of you.

    It doesn't need to have have any real influence on your relationship with her if she's atleast accepting, you are still you, the person she loves, and if you want to wear a diaper every now and then it does not change who you are.

    Yea, acceptance is key, goodluck with trying to figure this out =P
    R
    Hey-hey,

    Yup, all good here, just haven't really visited this site for a few months hehe. How have you been?
    Have you made any (more) sense of this abdl thing and how it applies to you? Did you ever get around to buying some diapers?
    R
    Ah, well that's okay, I figured you had some more important things to deal with in real life ;p
    R
    Have you decided on what pharmacy to hit yet =p?
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