Does anyone think having a diaper fetish keeps u a virgin

[weswissa]

Originally Posted by thebear687

Hey everyone wondering if anyone thinks liking diapers keeps u from having regular sex with normal woman. Because im 21 and im still a virgin and it really bothers me alot. I feel like im missing a big part of life not experiencing sex yet. I have gf but shes over weight and i am not. Shes an a AB mostly and she doesn't want to have sex till marriage. I don't want to wait till then ive already waited long enough. I just feel like im being held back from the diaper fetish and i cant stand that. And i always wonder damn what if i die tomorrow a virgin and i think about how shitty that would be. I basically feel like a loser basically substituting the diaper over real sex. What are your guys opinion on that?

She has the good idea, no sex before marriage. It's in the Bible. I believe it's Matthew 5:27 NKJV, 27"You have heard that is was said to those of old, 'You shall not commit adultery.'"

[Peachy]

Originally Posted by weswissa

She has the good idea, no sex before marriage. It's in the Bible. I believe it's Matthew 5:27 NKJV, 27"You have heard that is was said to those of old, 'You shall not commit adultery.'"

Lol...the bible. Doesn't "adultery" mean "no sex with anyone but your partner when you're married"?, or in other words: Don't cheat on your partner!?!

And doesn't the bible say somewhere that humans should he have as many kids as they can (can't quote - I'm not religious and have never even touched an English bible), which means that people should have more sex?!

Either way, we should not drift into the sex before marriage-debate again here, as the original topic was. Diapers vs. sex!

Peachy

[Valentine]

Originally Posted by Peachy

Snip.

Diapers vs. sex!

Peachy

I vote diapers.

[datosprivados]

It depends. Can u ONLY get off on diapers?. That used to be the case with me, but nowadays pussy is just as attractive as diapers, if not much more so.

Eh, I used to worry the same thing. Nowadays I just accept whatever fate has in store. But it's true.

You DO decide your fate to a great extent.
Choosing to have a one night stand, a stable week, month, or year/multiyear relationship is at least 40% within your grasp (40% u, 40% him/her, 10% chance)

Take a chance.

[thebear687]

Just to clear this up im not talking about diapers vs sex. I want sex theres no question in mind about that. My main question was if the fetish is holding me back from dating normal girls? Its my gf that doesn't want to have sex before marriage. If she wanted to id do it in second, but its not my choice, its hers. I'm more aiming at the psychology of dating someone that might not accept u for it and never being able to be completely comfortable with another girl. Otherwise i feel too comfortable with my gf mainly because of the diapers. And thats what holds me back from dating someone else, thus preventing me from having sex at this time. If i stay with her and wait to get married it could be a couple years till then. I feel i wont be lucky enough to find a diaper girl again if i break up with her. So its a big gamble, wait a long time to get married and have diaper sex? Or break up with her have sex with someone else and hope i find another diaper girl?

[Target]

guys guys....
you think too much to sex, you want to loose Virginity as soon as is possible, but you don't understand that what you really enjoy is LOVE.

What's the best part of sex? only 2-3 seconds of pleasure.
Love? love is more than 3 second of pleasure, it's something that you feel in your heart and you feel like it last forever.

You can love a girl and still being virgin, It's not a big deal!

I'm still virgin, but I don't blame my fetish. it's a personal choice.
And you are lucky having found a girl that really love you, you shouldn't break with her

[Darkfinn]

It didn't keep me a virgin. Now plain "vanilla" sex isn't all that fun for me... but I still do it.

[diapermingus]

If the only reason you date this girl is because she's an AB, then it's keeping both of you from having a fulfilling relationship with someone who really cares about you. You say you love her a lot, yet you also imply that her weight really turns you off. Do you want her to lose weight because it would be healthier and better for her (a good reason), or because you find her unattractive (an unpleasant and, frankly, ugly reason)? If you would break up with her except for being worried about finding someone better, that's a lousy reason to stay in a relationship.

Trying to circumvent her moral and religious convictions would be even more reprehensible than dumping her because she's overweight. Your diaper fetish isn't keeping you from losing your virginity, but it sounds like it's keeping you in a relationship you might not really want to be in.

Since you asked, I think you will persist in being a virgin because you have yet to form a serious and stable adult relationship. Your headlong pursuit of diaper sex is blinding you to the fact that this relationship isn't working for you. I think it's also keeping you from examining your own motives. Simply seeking sex is a terrible way to find a relationship. It is also a terrible way to lose your virginity. Leave this poor girl, whom you seem to be treating primarily as a sex object, and get used to making do with your hand until you can demonstrate the maturity that goes along with starting a sexual relationship.

On a personal note, my first girlfriend (with whom I lost my virginity) never knew I was a DL, and we went out for nearly two years. So no, it didn't keep me a virgin. And my girlfriend now knows I am a DL. We sometimes have diaper sex (with only me in a diaper, which turns her on a lot because she likes to see me turned on), but mostly we don't. It's virtually never been a problem in our sex life.

Finally, careful how you throw around the term 'normal'. Are you suggesting girls who are overweight aren't normal? Are you suggesting that having this fetish keeps you from being normal? Are you suggesting that having religious beliefs that sex outside marriage is wrong means someone isn't normal? Normal is a loaded word, and being normal is something that many people here would find overrated.

[handfulofoats]

Originally Posted by RainbowMommy

"but i just wish she would just lose alot of weight and then id defiantly consider marrying her"

If you love her, why do you care about weight? That sounds like a reason NOT to get married to her. If you can't love her no matter what she looks like, you don't love her at all.
>_>

Originally Posted by Eddy

I agree with you 100%....it doesn't matter what she look like, if you love her then you well marry her no matter what she look like.

I really expect negative rep here, but I just want everyone to know I'm being entirely unfair, but I'm just going to say it: Most people don't like fatties. Obesity is not compatible with normal human life... to most people.

[Lukie]

Originally Posted by handfulofoats

I really expect negative rep here, but I just want everyone to know I'm being entirely unfair, but I'm just going to say it: Most people don't like fatties. Obesity is not compatible with normal human life... to most people.

No no... that's a fair call. I'd be surprised if you get neg-rep for it.


Fact is, the majority of the population find fat people unattractive. That's just a fact. It's a societal norm that thinner people are considered better looking.

Relationships should definitely be based on mostly emotional factors, your feelings toward each other, but there's also got to be the physical component. There's no "I only care about personality" people, that's a crock of shit and I'm sure even those people could find someone with a brilliant personality considerably unattractive enough to not have a relationship with.

It's all personal preference and it's okay to say, "Sorry, but I just don't find you physically attractive".