Does anyone think having a diaper fetish keeps u a virgin

[Lukie]

Well have you considered that being a DL might just be a hugely sexual thing for her? I know for me, being a DL has a lot to do with my sexuality, even to the point where it dominates my sex drive. Perhaps she's holding off having sex because she feels that same way and just isn't to worried or concerned about having regular sex. It's not top priority on her "List of things to do", so to speak.

Does she know you're more than ready and prepared to have sex? Have you spoken with your girlfriend about how you feel? That's probably the best bet, because no one here can really know for sure what the situation is like. Keeping these things bottled up just makes unneeded stress and tension and could make your relationship go sour.

[ayanna]

A diaper fetish and sex are not mutually exclusive...neither are infantilism and sex.

I dated a guy for a while back in 2002-2003-2004....yeah we were together for a while (and new each other before we started dating)...he and I were both ABs...did that stop us from having sex...ummm...NO! Mind you, we were both well over the age of 21 at the time.

NOTE: There's nothing wrong with waiting for marriage...if that's your (or your girlfriend's) thing.

[Valentine]

Originally Posted by Pojo

Uhm...If you just want sex, then you don't really need diapers for it...Being 21 and a virgin isn't that bad...Now if you were 41, that would be a bit more embarrassing...But only you can change that...

I resent that, I am 42 and still a virgin.

There is nothing wrong with being a virgin, and there is nothing wrong with waiting for marriage to have sex.

If your girlfriend is overweight, help her lose the weight.

If she wants to wait until marriage to have sex, you need to decide between three things;

1) Is she worth waiting for to have sex?
2) Do you want to pressure her into having sex before then?
3) Do you want to find someone else to have sex with?

[EpicPie]

If you want sex simply go out and find a prostitute.

[Fire2box]

Originally Posted by Valentine

I resent that, I am 42 and still a virgin.

There is nothing wrong with being a virgin, and there is nothing wrong with waiting for marriage to have sex.

If your girlfriend is overweight, help her lose the weight.

If she wants to wait until marriage to have sex, you need to decide between three things;

1) Is she worth waiting for to have sex?
2) Do you want to pressure her into having sex before then?
3) Do you want to find someone else to have sex with?

I are 100% with valentine here. I am 20 years old and never came close to having sex hell I never kissed a girl or been on a date yet. Doing these things dose not change who you are or make you cool despite what the hell hollywood and peer pressure want you to think. Anyways I am a christian and I prefer to wait to have sex till I am married as well just beacuse it will be cool to save myself for hopefully is my one and only wife I'll ever have. It has nothing to do with diapers, plushies or pacifiers.

[thebear687]

Thanks for all the suggestions i really appreciate your answers especially rainbowmommy and eddy. I think i might be able to help her lose weight and her personality is great, very smart and loving. We share alot of the same interest and deep thinkers. I have talked to her about my desires to have sex and that im ready. But she still wants to wait till marriage so i respect that now. I will never force her to do anything because i wouldn't have the heart especially whats shes been through. Ill give her chance id be stupid if i didn't. Theres not alot of choices when it comes to DL/AB girls im damn lucky i have one. She defiantly is open to changing each others diapers for now and non intercourse sex related things. so that will make me happy while im waiting to have sex when were married. Feel alot better now thanks everyone.

[RainbowMommy]

Glad we could help.

I can imagine what it would be like to not have sex after already having it (horrible), but I'm sure not having it, even if you don't know what it's like, would have to be just as bad.

Internal urges, and most of society saying that if you're over 18/20 and a virgin, there is something wrong would have to suck. = (

Glad you are feeling better about it.

[Dash]

No.

Based purely on my own experience.

[Kovalchuk]

Originally Posted by thebear687

Hey everyone wondering if anyone thinks liking diapers keeps u from having regular sex with normal woman. Because im 21 and im still a virgin and it really bothers me alot. I feel like im missing a big part of life not experiencing sex yet. I have gf but shes over weight and i am not. Shes an a AB mostly and she doesn't want to have sex till marriage. I don't want to wait till then ive already waited long enough. I just feel like im being held back from the diaper fetish and i cant stand that. And i always wonder damn what if i die tomorrow a virgin and i think about how shitty that would be. I basically feel like a loser basically substituting the diaper over real sex. What are your guys opinion on that?

Dude... you're only 21! Besides, consider it from her point of view. If you love her, respect her opinion. In the long run, it's not like you'll never have sex.

[Sawaa]

I have gf but shes over weight and i am not

So? Are you saying that makes you better than her? :\