Opinion about YOUR sexual orientation

tk7432 · 3 Weeks Ago

This is a poll just to see what is people's general views on their sexual orientation. Are you accepting on it? Or not? Confused?

Personally, this is a topic that plagues me each day. I in technical terms am heteroflexible but still cannot decide whether I can fully say that I am bi. If I knew what my sexual orientation was, then I would slowly progress with it but would be isolated with it. Yet I would be accepting on my behalf. Lets wait and see how this goes on for me.

dummydave · 3 Weeks Ago

I'm definitely accepting of my sexual orientation (gay) now, at the age of 31, but I didn't get to this point until well into my twenties.

I would say that the first thing is to accept yourself for who you are, and then accepting your sexual orientation will follow. You don't have to make a choice and then 'progress' it - just go with the flow of what you feel is right for you at the time. Nothing you do is final, so as long as you're accepting of yourself, there's no reason you would become isolated.

NeiNei · 3 Weeks Ago

I'm very comfortable with being bisexual. It's always been a part of me, and hey, male and female bodies are beautiful in their own way. Why leave the other one out?

Olivia · 3 Weeks Ago

I'm accepting of my sexual orientation (straight). But I guess my opinion doesn't count as much because being straight is supposedly the norm.

But I'm definitely comfortable with myself.

TheFoxxehAssassin · 3 Weeks Ago

I'm confused about whether I am gay, or bisexual. I am okay with people being that, and would certainly be okay with being either myself.

I'll figure it out in my own time.

--The Foxxeh Assassin--

Pojo · 3 Weeks Ago

I'm fine with being straight, and I'm fine with what other people are. It doesn't matter to me.

SilverStar · 3 Weeks Ago

Homosexual. I wish i could come out of the closet to my family. It would be much easyer.
BUt my family is convined homosexuality is a choice. And would do who knows what to me.

avery · 3 Weeks Ago

i would be fine with being straight or gay, but i'm not sure how i feel about being asexual.

on the one hand, sex really really grosses me out and even thinking about it makes me uncomfortable. so i can't really say i wish i liked sex.

on the other hand, i would like to be a part of a family someday. i don't like to picture myself being alone all my life, and i don't want to die alone.

also, i don't like the way being asexual makes me relate to people. i'm almost afraid of people my own age, because there's always the question of weather we're trying to get into each other's shorts, and that freaks me out. i like to be friendly and forthcoming, but i can't stand the thought that people would think i'm trying to hit on them, it just makes me feel so sleazy. and i also get freaked out when people try to hit on me. as a result, most of my friends are middle-aged, since those are the only people i can feel really comfortable around. i feel like i'm missing out on a lot of the important aspects of friendship because i'm so uptight in the way i relate to people. i wish i could just tattoo "i don't want to fuck you" on my forehead.

anyway, i chose "I am confused about my acceptance of my sexual orientation"

Nicky · 3 Weeks Ago

I'm down with being straight

NutFreeFruitcake · 3 Weeks Ago

I dread how terrible life would be if I couldn't accept such a fundamental aspect of myself as sexuality.

That said, what one has to accept as an asexual is everything you aren't going to get to do in life. Unless you're an emotionless rock, this actually means quite a bit. You're faced with knowledge that, most likely, you're never going to get to truly love and share your life with anybody. "Accepting" asexuality means confronting this inherent loneliness, coming to terms with it, and then deciding how to make the best of a life without such a basic human need fulfilled.

View Poll Results: What is your personal view of acceptance on YOUR sexual orientation
I am accepting of my sexual orientation, and I am accepting of who I am	91	70.54%
I am not accepting of my sexual orientation	3	2.33%
I am confused about my acceptance of my sexual orientation	11	8.53%
I am confused on what is my sexual orientation	20	15.50%
Other	4	3.10%
Voters: 129. You may not vote on this poll

3 Weeks Ago	#1 (permalink)
tk7432 Regular Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: In my hood Age: 17 Posts: 842 Threads: 34 Wiki Edits: 2 Blog Entries: 5 Reputation: 6	Opinion about YOUR sexual orientation This is a poll just to see what is people's general views on their sexual orientation. Are you accepting on it? Or not? Confused? Personally, this is a topic that plagues me each day. I in technical terms am heteroflexible but still cannot decide whether I can fully say that I am bi. If I knew what my sexual orientation was, then I would slowly progress with it but would be isolated with it. Yet I would be accepting on my behalf. Lets wait and see how this goes on for me.

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3 Weeks Ago	#2 (permalink)
dummydave Regular Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: Leeds, UK Posts: 31 Threads: 1 Reputation: 0	I'm definitely accepting of my sexual orientation (gay) now, at the age of 31, but I didn't get to this point until well into my twenties. I would say that the first thing is to accept yourself for who you are, and then accepting your sexual orientation will follow. You don't have to make a choice and then 'progress' it - just go with the flow of what you feel is right for you at the time. Nothing you do is final, so as long as you're accepting of yourself, there's no reason you would become isolated.

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NeiNei Sparky's Mommy Pup <3 Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: Florida, USA Posts: 412 Threads: 6 Gallery Uploads: 2 Wiki Edits: 2 Blog Entries: 14 Reputation: 15	I'm very comfortable with being bisexual. It's always been a part of me, and hey, male and female bodies are beautiful in their own way. Why leave the other one out?

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Olivia Representing Kazakhstan Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: Utah/Idaho, USA Age: 19 Posts: 525 Threads: 9 Wiki Edits: 2 Reputation: 16	I'm accepting of my sexual orientation (straight). But I guess my opinion doesn't count as much because being straight is supposedly the norm. But I'm definitely comfortable with myself.

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TheFoxxehAssassin Cute 'lil fox! Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Houston, Texas, USA Age: 14 Posts: 994 Threads: 36 Gallery Uploads: 5 Blog Entries: 12 Reputation: 29	I'm confused about whether I am gay, or bisexual. I am okay with people being that, and would certainly be okay with being either myself. I'll figure it out in my own time. --The Foxxeh Assassin--

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Pojo No more cakes, sorry. Donor Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Virginia Age: 19 Posts: 6,538 Threads: 108 Wiki Edits: 121 Blog Entries: 15 Reputation: 93	I'm fine with being straight, and I'm fine with what other people are. It doesn't matter to me.

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SilverStar Regular Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Oregon,USA Age: 15 Posts: 491 Threads: 21 Gallery Uploads: 1 Wiki Edits: 1 Reputation: 6	Homosexual. I wish i could come out of the closet to my family. It would be much easyer. BUt my family is convined homosexuality is a choice. And would do who knows what to me.

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avery ??!! Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: seattle area Age: 27 Posts: 1,405 Threads: 16 Gallery Uploads: 5 Wiki Edits: 74 Blog Entries: 7 Reputation: 120	i would be fine with being straight or gay, but i'm not sure how i feel about being asexual. on the one hand, sex really really grosses me out and even thinking about it makes me uncomfortable. so i can't really say i wish i liked sex. on the other hand, i would like to be a part of a family someday. i don't like to picture myself being alone all my life, and i don't want to die alone. also, i don't like the way being asexual makes me relate to people. i'm almost afraid of people my own age, because there's always the question of weather we're trying to get into each other's shorts, and that freaks me out. i like to be friendly and forthcoming, but i can't stand the thought that people would think i'm trying to hit on them, it just makes me feel so sleazy. and i also get freaked out when people try to hit on me. as a result, most of my friends are middle-aged, since those are the only people i can feel really comfortable around. i feel like i'm missing out on a lot of the important aspects of friendship because i'm so uptight in the way i relate to people. i wish i could just tattoo "i don't want to fuck you" on my forehead. anyway, i chose "I am confused about my acceptance of my sexual orientation"

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Nicky Representing Zimbabwe Donor Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: NY Age: 22 Posts: 969 Threads: 29 Reputation: 10	I'm down with being straight

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NutFreeFruitcake VIP Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: Texas, USA Posts: 159 Threads: 1 Reputation: 15	I dread how terrible life would be if I couldn't accept such a fundamental aspect of myself as sexuality. That said, what one has to accept as an asexual is everything you aren't going to get to do in life. Unless you're an emotionless rock, this actually means quite a bit. You're faced with knowledge that, most likely, you're never going to get to truly love and share your life with anybody. "Accepting" asexuality means confronting this inherent loneliness, coming to terms with it, and then deciding how to make the best of a life without such a basic human need fulfilled.