Trying to help a friend... [and I really need outside help!]
My roommate (who is also, actually, my closest friend) has had a huge bed wetting problem over the last two months. It started out as, like, once a week he would wake up a little bit wet in the morning, but lately it been every day he has woken up soaked. I've been trying to help him subtly (because he is humiliated) by getting him medicines that might help and trying to get him to go to be bathroom before bed, but nothing really seems to be working. I was trying to avoid any drastic measures, but he has just started to wet himself during the day too. As gently as I could, I told him maybe adult diapers might be a solution and he nearly started to cry, then avoided me for the remainder of the day. He ended up going to the doctor's for it and the doctor told him he's just under a lot of stress and he needs to calm down. This, apparently, isn't possible for my poor friend and the wetting as continued day and night...
Long story short, I got him to try diapers at night, but he gets way too embarrassed when I try to remind him to put them on before he goes to sleep.
Does anyone have any advice on how I might be able to warm him up to them (like, maybe about how others got into liking diapers, I don't know)? Just enough that he might not hate himself whenever he puts them on? He is really my closest friend and I hate to see him so upset.