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**massiechist** · 3 Weeks Ago

I'm 30, feel old, have been into this for over 17 years! live in philly burbs, would like to play with a discreet person!

Tommy · 3 Weeks Ago

You would like to play with a discreet person? Hmm ..

Welcome to the site, everyone here is very supportive and know exactly how you feel

Welcome to the forums!

oblivionxi1 · 3 Weeks Ago

Just to warn you, this is NOT a dating site.

We do sometimes have real life meetings but do not do dating.

Anyways, welcome to ADISC!

**Peachy** · 3 Weeks Ago

If you want to play, why not get into your car and drive out to Atlantic City, NJ? I've heard they have loads of casinos there.

And now start over and tell us something about yourself!

Peachy

**massiechist** · 2 Weeks Ago

man, you guys are picky. i'm not here for a date i'm a married man! I've been in the scene for almost two decades so i don't need a tutorial on the lifestyle.

oblivionxi1 · 2 Weeks Ago

Quote:

Originally Posted by massiechist

man, you guys are picky. i'm not here for a date i'm a married man! I've been in the scene for almost two decades so i don't need a tutorial on the lifestyle.

Its just... you said you want to play with a discreet person? I interpreted that as a date request. Even not as a date request, it sounds a little off.

Sooo.. yeah. What peachy said, lets start over...

**Peachy** · 2 Weeks Ago

Quote:

Originally Posted by massiechist

man, you guys are picky. i'm not here for a date i'm a married man! I've been in the scene for almost two decades so i don't need a tutorial on the lifestyle.

As a married man, you should not be looking for discreet play sessions. Unless you're talking online role play, but to be honest: Your message didn't sound like that at all. To me, it sounded like you're looking for someone to cheat on your wife with, and that's morally wrong in two ways: It's not the idea of marriage, and it's not in tone with the idea of this forum (especially with the presence of minors here!).

Peachy

spddan · 2 Weeks Ago

Quote:

Originally Posted by massiechist

man, you guys are picky. i'm not here for a date i'm a married man! I've been in the scene for almost two decades so i don't need a tutorial on the lifestyle.

Hi Massiechist, welcome to ADISC

Let me explain to you a little as to why this site might seem so picky here. First and foremost, this is a support community for *BDLs. We are here as a group of people with the same basic interest, to discuss just about anything, be it related to that interest or completely off-topic. So, a good way to start here would be to tell us what some of your hobbies and interests are, outside of diapers and regression. That might help you out and give you some better responses here.

Secondly, I'm going to assume the better of what you wrote, and take it that you are merely looking for a friend, and not a date. Well, while I don't believe it's impossible to find a friend here who lives in your area (a lot of cool people here from all over), I do want to warn you that your odds of succeeding in finding that here are not great. For the most part, people here mostly want to feel comfortable with a member first, before they walk into anything.

That all being said, I hope you do enjoy your stay here.

**KidDiamond** · 2 Weeks Ago

All that being said, Hey! I'm from the Philadelphia area! I tool around in the city (down town) on my bike all the time. Like museums?

tk7432 · 2 Weeks Ago

Welcome to ADISC! Just to be repetitive for the fun of it, this is a support site and not a dating site. The ambiguity of the last sentence of your first post implied that you are interested in finding a person here. I do respect that you are in fact married but just as an early warning we here do take every post on this site seriously and in consideration to watch out for suspicious and weird activity. Just so you can know what you can post on this forum, check the rules on the top of the page. We are not here to kick people out or be mean about it but there are minors on this site and every post is taken seriously to ensure the safety and protection of each and every member on this site. So.... how bout dem Yankees?

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massiechist Newbie Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Philadelphia Posts: 3 Threads: 1 Reputation: 0	new here I'm 30, feel old, have been into this for over 17 years! live in philly burbs, would like to play with a discreet person!

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Tommy Regular Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: England Age: 17 Posts: 628 Threads: 49 Reputation: 9	You would like to play with a discreet person? Hmm .. Welcome to the site, everyone here is very supportive and know exactly how you feel Welcome to the forums! Last edited by Tommy; 3 Weeks Ago at 12:36 AM. Reason: Thought he said he felt "Odd" when it was "old" edited that part out :)

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Peachy Leaves are falling Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Bremen, Germany Age: 32 Posts: 4,706 Threads: 97 Gallery Uploads: 48 Wiki Edits: 12 Blog Entries: 13 Reputation: 145	If you want to play, why not get into your car and drive out to Atlantic City, NJ? I've heard they have loads of casinos there. And now start over and tell us something about yourself! Peachy __________________ A is like an apple with extra carpeting! Adopted users and furs : Littletiger, Jeffy, MrMacro, Mazza, RubixFox, Takashi, baseball4life, Yumi, mzkkbprmt (as a 2yo), EpicPie to my kindergarten Award winning fruit (2 years in a row!)

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3 Weeks Ago	#3 (permalink)
oblivionxi1 Regular Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Calgary, Alberta, Canada Age: 15 Posts: 423 Threads: 11 Blog Entries: 4 Reputation: 5	Just to warn you, this is NOT a dating site. We do sometimes have real life meetings but do not do dating. Anyways, welcome to ADISC!

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massiechist Newbie Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Philadelphia Posts: 3 Threads: 1 Reputation: 0	man, you guys are picky. i'm not here for a date i'm a married man! I've been in the scene for almost two decades so i don't need a tutorial on the lifestyle.

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KidDiamond Newbie Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Philadelphia, PA, USA Posts: 3 Threads: 0 Reputation: 0	All that being said, Hey! I'm from the Philadelphia area! I tool around in the city (down town) on my bike all the time. Like museums?

2 Weeks Ago	#10 (permalink)
tk7432 Regular Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: In my hood Age: 17 Posts: 842 Threads: 34 Wiki Edits: 2 Blog Entries: 5 Reputation: 6	Welcome to ADISC! Just to be repetitive for the fun of it, this is a support site and not a dating site. The ambiguity of the last sentence of your first post implied that you are interested in finding a person here. I do respect that you are in fact married but just as an early warning we here do take every post on this site seriously and in consideration to watch out for suspicious and weird activity. Just so you can know what you can post on this forum, check the rules on the top of the page. We are not here to kick people out or be mean about it but there are minors on this site and every post is taken seriously to ensure the safety and protection of each and every member on this site. So.... how bout dem Yankees?