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			<title>My one-month coin!</title>
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			<pubDate>Sun, 05 Sep 2010 17:50:41 GMT</pubDate>
			<description>This is a vanity post, that probably should have been a blog, but fuck it, this is a milestone for me. 
 
I got my one-month sobriety coin!  Just a...</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>This is a vanity post, that probably should have been a blog, but fuck it, this is a milestone for me.<br />
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I got my one-month sobriety coin!  Just a few days ago.  Everybody at the meeting expected me to say something when the coin was given to me, I did not know what to say.  I did not stay sober for one month because I knew any of the answers to a lifetime of sobriety, that's for damn sure.  I just thanked the people who kept talking to me, and left it at that....<br />
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Hell, the first couple of weeks of sobriety after my last relapse was pretty rough.  Thankfully, it is getting somewhat easier.  I now have 37 days without alcohol, and almost four months without weed.  More money for video games, oh, my!<br />
<br />
I did not think AA would be able to help me, you can thank Penn &amp; Teller for that.  I went to my first meeting around three months ago, and it was totally not what I was expecting.  People there were lively, friendly, very open.  There is no self-loathing amongst the longtimers at the meetings I have been going to.  Many of people have fallen harder than I have, yet they have picked themselves up and now are living very good lives.  That's enough motivation to keep me going on the program.<br />
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So, that is where I am at now.<br />
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I know some people love to slam on AA, and that's OK.  That does not affect my recovery one bit.  :)</div>

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			<dc:creator>RebornKaworu</dc:creator>
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			<title>what do you think of this?</title>
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			<pubDate>Sun, 05 Sep 2010 17:06:13 GMT</pubDate>
			<description>Sakineh Mohammadi Ashtiani to be lashed over photograph | Metro.co.uk...</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><a href="http://www.metro.co.uk/news/839992-sakineh-mohammadi-ashtiani-to-be-lashed-over-photograph" target="_blank">Sakineh Mohammadi Ashtiani to be lashed over photograph | Metro.co.uk</a><br />
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I am sick about hearing about these barbarians in the news. :wallbash:<br />
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do you think the UK (and possibly other countries I'm not sure) should just stop paying attention to these people and their countries? (and GTHO if we are currently invading them)</div>

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			<title>Having  sex when one or both are incontinent</title>
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			<pubDate>Sun, 05 Sep 2010 09:49:03 GMT</pubDate>
			<description><![CDATA[I'm curious and nothing graphic/sexual intended but what would it be like to have sex when you (male/female) are incontinent or your partner...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>I'm curious and nothing graphic/sexual intended but what would it be like to have sex when you (male/female) are incontinent or your partner (male/female) is incontinent (say only urinary incontinent?) And for females, what would it be like to carry a child for 9 months and being incontinent? What sort of diapers would you wear?</div>

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			<dc:creator>vantran</dc:creator>
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			<title>Freaking out...</title>
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			<pubDate>Sun, 05 Sep 2010 02:49:46 GMT</pubDate>
			<description><![CDATA[Well I started my first year of college last wednesday and I made a proclamation to myself. I promised myself that with this migration to a "new...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>Well I started my first year of college last wednesday and I made a proclamation to myself. I promised myself that with this migration to a &quot;new world&quot;, I would leave behind in the old world my depression, anxiety, past grudges, ect. Basically I will come to college with the books on my back and the knowledge in my head and start a new life, one which will enable me to make friends and have a happier, overall better life than I did in High School. <br />
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With this promise I made, I wanted to not worry about money so much and not be obsessed with it. However, just going over my expenses and income I am freaking out, since I will be running at a loss every month. I already work 3 jobs and am considering getting a 4th to even out my balance sheet a bit. I go to school 4 days a week and work 3, every single minute not spent on school or studying is spent on working. I am doing everything I can t learn new skills to make more money. <br />
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I wanted to join a club or two and find ways to make friends, since my therapist said I needed to not work all the time, which I would like to do(make more friends). You know...I want to have an enjoyable college experience. But every time I look at income and look at expenses I cut as my as i can and still come up a bit short and to be honest it terrifys me to death to think of being financially crippled coming out of college. <br />
<br />
Should I just say &quot;fuck it&quot; to the finances and figure out what to do when the time comes to figure that out? Should I keep running at a loss? Should I try to have a good time in college? Or should I keep working my 72 hour weeks, or should I step this up to putting in 100 + weeks? <br />
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*with the way my schedule is right now, I don't have time to see my psych. <br />
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I just need some advice. (I'm also a commuter student)</div>

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			<title>English Language Writing Tutoring and Mentoring</title>
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			<pubDate>Sat, 04 Sep 2010 23:13:55 GMT</pubDate>
			<description>Since ADISC is a support organization, all the words in my topic title have been used here previously. We are lucky to have a system giving us those...</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>Since ADISC is a support organization, all the words in my topic title have been used here previously. We are lucky to have a system giving us those alerts.<br />
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Recently there have been threads in which members with communication difficulties express frustration. Those who do not write using Standard English feel they are slighted by other members. At the same time members complain they have difficulty reading posts with more than a few spelling errors.<br />
<br />
In these threads a few members have mentioned helping others, doing copy-editing and so on.<br />
<br />
Up-front I confess that although I have mentored younger folks for many years, as far as I know all understood Standard English and did not tell me they had any learning issues. Based on the marvelous sharing here about AS, they might not have been diagnosed. Certainly I do not hold myself out as an expert special needs educator. I am an attorney who writes for attorney publications and was a Law Review editor my final year of law school.<br />
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Perhaps here in ADISC we can start a program in which members who would like help with their writing could ask the powers that be assign them a tutor or several tutors. It is said that the best way to reinforce your own education is to teach someone else. We have members who admit being very mature and others who are young teenagers. Many from these age groups communicate very well. We also have mature adult members who set poor standards when writing.<br />
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It always makes me sad to receive a letter from a young person who asks about a career in the legal profession and yet does not realize they do not write in a standard way. Often I make a copy of their letter and correct it as if they were my student. I try to do so as gently as possible.<br />
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The thing is often fascinating ideas and concepts are communicated poorly. It would be foolish to reject all badly communicated concepts, and yet it takes a force of will to read such communication line by line doing a translation.<br />
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How do the members and mods feel about this?<br />
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I mention assigning tutors so as to avoid a need for strangers to meet face-to-face. Probably such assigning would be a chore for the mods.</div>

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			<title>Disturbing movies / books / music / video games?</title>
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			<pubDate>Sat, 04 Sep 2010 22:26:00 GMT</pubDate>
			<description>Yeah, this thread is all about the times you dipped into something and got seriously disturbed for some time afterwards. 
 
The last movie I saw that...</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>Yeah, this thread is all about the times you dipped into something and got seriously disturbed for some time afterwards.<br />
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The last movie I saw that I thought was seriously disturbing was <b>The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo</b>, but the single most disturbing move I ever watched is <b>Salo - The 120 Days of Sodom</b>.  The final scenes in that film gave me nightmares for weeks after I finished watching it for the first time, and I was 21 at that time.  <br />
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The first film that gave me nightmares was <b>The Killing Fields</b> - and I was four, and I happened to walk in on my parents watching it right about the scene where the guy is stumbling through the field that is littered with rotting human corpses.  Yikes!<br />
<br />
I used to be very disturbed when I read Stephen King books, but I probably should not have been reading those when I was 9.  About that same age, I was also disturbed by a Beatles song, of all things.  Actually, a couple - <b>Run For Your Life</b> and <b>Happiness is a Warm Gun</b>.  Perhaps then I should have been happy my mother did not let me purchase those Venom LPs I wanted at the time if that was all it took to disturb me, but ah, well.  :-)<br />
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The only video games that made me go &quot;whoa!&quot; with disturbance have been <b>Limbo</b> and <b>Resident Evil - Code Veronica</b> - and with the latter, it was only with one moment when the heroine got her head crushed like a melon in an infected's fist, and I thought that was particuarly icky.  Heh.<br />
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Most of the stuff that disturbed me years ago no longer disturbs me nearly as much these days.  That must mean I am getting jaded.  Or maybe it just means I know recognize that songs and special effects did not hurt anybody that was involved in them.<br />
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Was anybody else here ever seriously disturbed by things in pop culture at some point in his or her life?<br />
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Silly and frivilous thread, I know.</div>

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			<title>Panhandler vs Day Laborers (Who will you help?)</title>
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			<pubDate>Fri, 03 Sep 2010 03:19:43 GMT</pubDate>
			<description>*Introduction* 
Take a look at the following two (2) images and understand that the Courts have held both are protected Free Speech, under certain...</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><b>Introduction</b><br />
Take a look at the following two (2) images and understand that the Courts have held both are protected Free Speech, under certain conditions (eg., non-aggressive, not impeding traffic or threat to public safety and/or infringing on the rights of others).<br />
(Source: <a href="http://www.nlchp.org/" target="_blank">National Law Center on Homelessness &amp; Poverty</a>)<br />
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<b>Panhandler</b><br />
<img src="http://blog.prospect.org/blog/ezraklein/panhandler.jpg" border="0" alt="" /><br />
(Source: <a href="http://www.prospect.org/" target="_blank">The American Prospect</a>)<br />
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<b>Day Laborers</b><br />
<img src="http://cockroachpeople.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/DayLaborSite.jpg" border="0" alt="" /><br />
(Source: <a href="http://cockroachpeople.com/" target="_blank">cockroach people</a>)<br />
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<br />
Now look at the attached alternate image of the exact same situation but with people from different ethic backgrounds in a little different environment.<br />
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<b>Consultants (Day Laborers) vs Homeless (Panhandler)</b><br />
<img src="http://www.adisc.org/forum/attachments/mature-topics/2582d1283483104-panhandler-vs-day-laborers-who-will-you-help-homelessvsworker.jpg" border="0" alt="" /><br />
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<u>Note</u>: We have no evidence that the Day Laborers and/or Consultants avoid taxes.  Same is true for the people panhandling for Starbucks, Weed or just looking for free money (still income).  We just do not know what they do at the end of the year.<br />
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<br />
<b>Now the Situation</b><br />
You have $100 in a special fund at the end of the month that will be taken away, if not used (like a Flex-Spending Account).  It is use it or lose it time.  How would you spend the $100 if the fund can only be used in one of the four manners (based on the images):<br />
<ol class="decimal"><li>Help a White Guy buy weed and Starbucks</li>
<li>Hire an Hispanic Worker to remove Diapers from your house</li>
<li>Give the money to a Hispanic Homeless</li>
<li>Hire White Workers to design an Adult Baby Crib</li>
</ol><br />
Feel free to change the items to be completed around but the intent is still the same.<br />
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<br />
<b>Discussion</b><br />
Some items to discuss and review:<blockquote><br />
Why would you select one item over the other?<br />
Did we discriminate in making our selection?<br />
Is there a difference between the White and Hispanic Guy seeking free money?<br />
Is there a difference between the White and Hispanic Laborers seeking to work for their money?<br />
Are we assuming the Whites or the Hispanics are legal residents?<br />
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			<title>Itchy.. mmm...</title>
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			<pubDate>Thu, 02 Sep 2010 16:34:57 GMT</pubDate>
			<description>Why is it that some men either; scratch or play with their private bits? 
 
It annoys me. Im a man myself and i never once need to scratch down there...</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>Why is it that some men either; scratch or play with their private bits?<br />
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It annoys me. Im a man myself and i never once need to scratch down there but yet there are people i know who constantly scratch all the time. <br />
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They dont even do in in private, they just stick their hands in their pockets or down their trousers and start playing or scratching themselves, sometimes infront of me when im trying to talk to them.<br />
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It actually turns my stomach seeing people do this kind of behaviour.<br />
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So, any ideas? lol<br />
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Ginger</div>

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			<title>PLEASE HELP! Dealing with a childish, close minded mother...</title>
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			<pubDate>Wed, 01 Sep 2010 00:04:58 GMT</pubDate>
			<description><![CDATA[I am dealing with an issue in my life that hasn't surfaced until now. I have grown up dealing with my mom and her childish ways of thinking. I am...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>I am dealing with an issue in my life that hasn't surfaced until now. I have grown up dealing with my mom and her childish ways of thinking. I am home schooled by my mom, so I am around her very often, I am a very calm, even tempered, and intelligent guy.<br />
<br />
 I am starting to get very angry about the ways she poorly handles things which now i am starting to have anger issues to the point where she questions my overall integrity. Also with the issue of my infantilism, my mom is not excepting at all, She condemns me for even doing such things but I know that she is close minded, and repulses things that are different. (Btw were talking about someone who won't try new foods or anything new and she 42). <br />
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I wanted to show her that she doesn't rule my sexual life. So in rebellion i took the car without permission (very unlike me) to go get diapers. when i was caught with them, she was angry about me doing this but i didn't care because i know where i stand spiritually. I am not going to Hell for a diaper fetish. I am getting off topic.<br />
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My mom has been married to my dad for 20 or so years. My dad (not saying that he is a bad man, he has a exponential amounts of good qualities, has downsized and bullied her into thinking that she is lower than dirt, for so many years that when he leaves the house because his job atm is to travel across country for his work, then she feels that when he is gone she demands respect and is very strict because of it. <br />
<br />
I matured enough to the point where I think I am more of an adult than she is mental wise not age. I can understand what is going on, but won't put up with her acts of trying to feel that she has worth by her acting like a huge bitch to me. That shit ain't very (which she has worth but she doesn't think so) She can make up any rule she wants whether it be good or really stupid. When I try to talk to her about it, she is resistant. And usually we fight :wallbash:! <br />
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Please give me some tips on how to keep cool. I am only 17 and not have what is need to move out on my own yet.</div>

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			<title>Regarding My Belief System (Pagan Deism)</title>
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			<pubDate>Tue, 31 Aug 2010 23:14:06 GMT</pubDate>
			<description>Let me start off by saying, I am not religious. I am not here to change your beliefs, but I just may very well do that. Many of you know, that I...</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>Let me start off by saying, I am not religious. I am not here to change your beliefs, but I just may very well do that. Many of you know, that I reject all Abrahamic religions and thought systems (Christianity, Islam, Judaism), as well as Hinduism, and other book and faith based spiritualities. <br />
Many people ask me why this is... What made me &quot;fall from grace&quot;; The very books used as proof did. I'm not here to start a  debate about why &quot;X group is stupid&quot; I don't intend for that, but; give me a moment here.<br />
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			<div class="message"> Revelation, or revealed religion, is defined in Webster's New World Dictionary as: &quot;God's disclosure to man of Himself.&quot; This should read, &quot;God's alleged disclosure to man of himself.&quot; For unless God reveals to each of us individually that a particular religion is truly His disclosure to us of Himself, then, by believing that religion, we are not taking His word for it, but we are instead putting our belief in the person or institution telling us it is so. This is what we are doing when we believe in any revealed religion, and that's all Christianity is. It's a revealed religion like many others such as Islam and Judaism. Revealed religion gets dangerous however, when it crosses over the line into politics. This is the admitted goal of the Christian Coalition. God allegedly revealed to Pat Robertson and his Coalition, that He wants them to take over America and eventually the world with &quot;His Word,&quot; so the laws of the nations will mirror the laws in the Bible, which, if you know what's in the Bible, is terrifying. This, too, is what the Ayatollah's goal was, only his &quot;revealed word of God&quot; was the Koran, an other revelation. Are we to believe Pat when he says the Bible is revelation of God's Word?</div>
			
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</div> This is a fantastic basis for my beliefs, that since we cannot directly talk to god, and he does not directly reveal himself to everyone, as the bible, koran, and the like say that these revelations cannot possibly be true. I choose to find my path to our/my greater being by direct observation, and not being told what he is. He does not want worship, he allowed us to evolve a sense of reason and right/wrong without him. <br />
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We should use that... Not books, not churches, not fables, and not prayer. <br />
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Morality by Reasoning, not a book: <br />
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&quot;If it hurts someone, it's wrong, if it doesn't hurt or it is beneficial it's good. &quot;<br />
This supports, the closest spirituality to my belief system, Wicca. <br />
I believe that all things are connected, and that the natural laws of nature; meaning that physics, time, and evolution bind us. That what you do has a consequence both in this life and the hereafter. The Wiccan law of &quot;Threefold Return.&quot; <br />
I celebrate the passing of seasons, and welcome the change they bring. (Yule especially... aka &quot;Christmas&quot; ... &gt;&gt;) Wicca also supports my transhumanisim with regard to the inter-connectivity, and relativity of everything. <br />
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			<div class="message">When you open your eyes to a cosmic perspective, something awe inspiring stays with you and you see life in a whole new way.<br />
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Every single instance of life in this universe is an extension of you and you are an extension of it. As life, we are not as old as we often think we are.<br />
<br />
Science shows that heavier elements that compose everything we see today were forged within dying stars, that existed long before the earth was formed.<br />
<br />
If life emerged out of those components we can then understand that every living part of you is in truth older than life itself.<br />
<br />
Perhaps we should not only be counting your age in terms of decades, but in the billions of years. The fact that you are alive today, and that your body is literally made of star stuff, is living proof of this.<br />
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As descendants of life, we may yet widen our perspectives of what we really are. Your essence did not appear out of thin air, but rather, it is composed of cells that have divided, evolved and multiplied over millions of years, information that has condensed under natural selection and universal processes.<br />
<br />
In some ways, you have not only been as you see yourself right now, but you have, in fact, experienced the past as your individual parents and even those before them, recursively. Everything that makes you could not exist otherwise.<br />
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From this perspective, the essence that encompasses you is linked to every other entity that has ever lived, and through you and others, will also be linked to those that have yet to come.<br />
<br />
The implications of this argument should not be lost in its simplicity. You're not only 'linked' to everything...you are part of everything.<br />
<br />
Every single organism you've ever encountered or have yet to see, has a singular, common point of origin with you (the moment Science refers to as the singularity and the Big Bang).<br />
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Since then, everything in our universe has evolved. From subatomic particles to atoms, to molecules, to stars, galaxies, planets and even life. All of this essence is you, in many ways.<br />
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Next time you look at another human with kindness and humility in your eyes, you will see a reflection of yourself and the universe within that entity.<br />
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Ever since the universe evolved life on this planet, an instance of us has been. The essence of everything that is you, the molecules, your cells, your skin, has changed, but it has done so for billions of years.<br />
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Similarly to the way that you, as life, have a point of origin that did not begin in the womb, the evolution of life is but a brief cosmic step of a macro universal process. We could call this Universal Evolution, or the evolution of Information on a universal scale(a process that is not limited to biological evolution, but from which biological evolution emerged from).<br />
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You are part of this process. From an intelligent, conscious perspective, we may have a role to play in this process like none before.<br />
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Look around you, and you may yet realize who and what you are. Your amazing potential. To have had your essence forged inside in the hearts of stars, to have evolved hands to feel and eyes to see, ears to listen. After nearly being eradicated by meteors that wiped the dinosaurs off the face of the planet, you've had the ability to survive the toughest of ice ages, powerful droughts and dangerous moments of starvation. To have discovered fire. To form ideas about the world, becoming increasingly more aware of yourself. To have looked into the past, to reason for the future. To have created technology, to have inspired generations...In our times, through intelligence, you are exponentially becoming.<br />
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We are surrounded by insurmountable opportunities. The Universe has found a way to reason about itself, and we are experiencing that new evolutionary step, one which does not seem to have any particular singular point of importance, but to which we can give value as sentient beings, if we choose to.<br />
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There is much yet for us as life to find out and understand. Through reason, Science and Technology we're breaking away the shells of ignorance and the barriers that limit us from achieving our dreams.<br />
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Where we go from here, is entirely up to us, because if we choose to, the Universe will no longer be driven by chance...but by choice</div>
			
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I think that in this point in time of human evolution we can move past religion. We all have the ability to reason, God/Father/Allah/Yaweh/Jehova/Abraham/ or what ever you choose to call him allowed this ability to flourish in this universe. As such, it should be used. <br />
<br />
Faith in religion is a poison; that fact is infallible for one very reason:<br />
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One one cites faith as a reason a person is good, it suggests that that person would be a bad person otherwise and requires a &quot;Daddy&quot; to tell them what to do. To have this, the person has not grown, and would otherwise do bad things. I have heard many people proclaim that if it were not for the hereafter and eternal judgment, they would do evil. However, these people have the ability to reason, and the ability to feel. To hurt someone else is to go against reason, humanism, and our progress of evolution. <br />
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The only thing keeping them from doing bad things is punishment. <br />
Not just because they don't want to hurt someone, or because it's unfair.. Because they are scared of being punished. <br />
This is fear, this is coercion and how Christianity especially recruits new members if the 'love of god' fails. <br />
I have met fantastic Christians, I am in love with one. Even they, when I raise this point that they do not need a book, or faith in something like Yahweh, to bee good people and that they should be strong and stand on their own, I get the hell card. <br />
Which brings me to my next and final point: I live without fear, completely. <br />
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Not of man, not of hell, and not of god. Our &quot;creator&quot; need not be feared, just as a work of art not need fear the artist. If you are a good person, and do good for your people, and the world there is no reason for negative judgment to come about you. Just as you need not fear the consequences of your reactions in the flesh. Good begets Good, they teach you that in Nursery School. You don't need a holy book tot ell you that, especially one that can be as corrupt as they writers choose to be. <br />
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You have reason, you know what good and bad is. You develop this sense through not god, but observance, learning and education. <br />
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I know of people who claim god delivered them from bad situations, or helped them heal. Which... I hate this... They are so undignified to themselves that they have to turn to a &quot;big brother&quot;, which feels good... It's nice to be coddled, but it is also weak. It us undignified to claim that you didn't get yourself out of dodge on your own. <br />
Ultimately, it is still your choice...<br />
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&quot;Religion is an insult to human dignity. With or without it, you'd have good people doing good things and evil people doing bad things, but for good people to do bad things, it takes religion.&quot;<br />
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-- Steven Weinberg<br />
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That my children, is all.<br />
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			<title>Please, I need help..</title>
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			<pubDate>Tue, 31 Aug 2010 20:50:03 GMT</pubDate>
			<description><![CDATA[I don't know what's going on with me, I am feeling so depressed all the time.  This is weird for me because I am usually such an energetic person.  
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>I don't know what's going on with me, I am feeling so depressed all the time.  This is weird for me because I am usually such an energetic person. <br />
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On this website I feel as though I am not wanted, and that everyone hates me. I am 'sure' this isn't true, yet... I still can't help but have this feeling.<br />
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In real life I'm dealing with so much that it's almost insane.  With the loss of my mother as a child, I've always just known my father to be there.  But the doctors are telling him that his heart isn't pumping enough blood and I'm horribly afraid to lose him.. <br />
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My girlfriend also puts alot of pressure on me. It seems that whenever I don't want to agree with her, or go to see her she makes me feel overwhelming guilt.  It's crazy. o. o;;<br />
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Also, if you don't know this about me, I suffer from stress incontinence.  And on my school bus, there is one guy who always bullies me about it.  It honestly drives me insane.  <br />
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Not to mention school being a living hell.  But that's just High School..<br />
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Please ADISC... I really just want some advice. /:</div>

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			<title>How to deal with it.</title>
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			<pubDate>Tue, 31 Aug 2010 16:03:10 GMT</pubDate>
			<description><![CDATA[I'm a 14 yr old gay male from Mansfield. These past months have been a nightmare. Being gay is extremely hard for me because I have no one to help me...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>I'm a 14 yr old gay male from Mansfield. These past months have been a nightmare. Being gay is extremely hard for me because I have no one to help me through it. I've lost most of my guy friends and my girlfriends are all I have left. My dad is extremely homophobic and I'm scared he would never speak to me again if he ever found out. My mom would probably accept me, but act strange. I'm not sure how my girls would react to it either. My city has no gay clubs for me to go to to meet people like me. I cant hide myself anymore, it's killing me. I don't know what to do, or who to go to. I'm also a very shy person, so meeting new people is somewhat of a challenge for me. What can I do to help myself?<br />
Being around the few guy friends I have left them straight talking about girls ect makes me feel left out and I don't know what to do I don't know what to do should I just act straight or come out of the closet? I'm afraid if I do this I will be hurt badly by other guys loose all my friends ect. I don't know what to do :(</div>

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			<div class="message">If you tell a Fib then everybody is disappointed.   There is no Justifiable for a lie.</div>
			
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</div> Hello<br />
I recently got this comment on a post I made so I would like to know the community views on the subject. I agree that lying in allot of circumstances is wrong and should not be done. (Like the kids who come on the forum and say they are going to lie about bed wetting to get diapers bought for them) <br />
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However how many people agree with me that lying is justifiable at certain times? (like if a known gay basher asks you if you are gay when you are or if you live at home with your parents and know if you admit to being a <acronym title="Adult Baby">AB</acronym>/<acronym title="Diaper Lover">DL</acronym> they will kick you out)<br />
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Please go easy on the grammar and punctuation I am trying:sad:</div>

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			<pubDate>Sun, 29 Aug 2010 20:26:38 GMT</pubDate>
			<description><![CDATA[Westboro Baptist Church Protesters Are Pepper Sprayed at Marine's Funeral in Omaha...]]></description>
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A person driving by protesters from Westboro baptist church (who aren't anywhere closely like real baptists) tried to pepper spray the group. <br />
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Here's a video of the incident. (the guy is driving the red SUV directly along the corner) <br />
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>Alright all my life I've had anger issues. I'll just up and explode. I'll curse, rage, road rage, and just not control myself well enough when I'm angry. Note I'm not destructive but I'll just yell and be very cynical about everything in life. This has led my fiancee to threaten to leave me if I don't' change my ways.<br />
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See here is my situation... Fiancee didn't have enough money to pay rent because of some issues in the University. I got angered. If something happens to her financially I always get angry. Not at her. Just in general it's anger that has no real output. No real reason. I just get angry with the way the world works to the point where I'll endanger my life and the life of others when I'm driving. I'll start shaking and want to punch shit and what not. I also have a pretty short fuse when it comes to stuff like that. It's stuff that shouldn't happen... anyway I get angry because of serious situations like that.<br />
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anyway main point is my stress is affecting my fuse. anything can set me off and well infantilism doesn't help much sometimes. My parents and fiancee have told me to fix it or well they'll fix it for me. and I was more then willing to comply because it's not healthy and well I understand I'm being a raging douchebag. I'm normally kind cool headed and what not. It's just certain times I'll lose my temper to no end. It doesn't last long but I don't know why. I've always been like this but now that I'm an adult it's worse then ever.... So my question is.... How do I manage it? I have no money for counseling right now or the time really. I just want to try it on my own with my families help if it doesn't work I'll seek counselling. But I'm fairly sure I can fix it I have a pretty strong will and I can do anything I set my mind to. Essentially I just want to do this not for my fiancee but for myself too. <br />
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Keep in mind I don't harm anyone. or destroy anything. I just feel like doing it the most I'll do is punch a wall or something.... but that can turn into something much worse in a rage of mine. and I want to prevent this.... I can't keep a clear head... emotions overtake me? So yeah please just give me advice to chill this out.....</div>

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			<description>Nettleton Middle School Segregates Students: Only Whites Can Run For President (UPDATED: School Ends Policy)...</description>
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			<title>Need Advice: Gay Coverup</title>
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			<pubDate>Sun, 29 Aug 2010 00:32:46 GMT</pubDate>
			<description><![CDATA[Hi, 
 
I wonder if anyone here has any ability/knowledge/skills to help me out. Due to circumstances beyond my control I have to pretend I'm not gay...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><font face="Book Antiqua">Hi,<br />
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I wonder if anyone here has any ability/knowledge/skills to help me out. Due to circumstances beyond my control I have to pretend I'm not gay and go back in the closet that I abandoned without thinking properly about (you'd think that after a decade of being in the closet I'd at least have the knowledge of how to go back in). <br />
<br />
I've been racking my brains for nearly 2 years now and I still have no idea what to do, so I thought I'd post here. <br />
<br />
I am sort of looking at a “gay cure” (in a roundabout way).What I am looking for is: either an effective method at covering up I'm gay so that not even I know I'm one of those or a way that I don't seem to notice or think about males in any shape or form. Both would be nice but both together are not essential. <br />
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I think it'll be easy for anyone to come in with cover-up methods as there's not much to cover up. I'm not camp, I don't ponce around the place, I'm not blonde, I don't drive a Mini, I don't have a stupid gay voice, and I'm a right proper hard nut. <br />
<br />
I think back when I was at school (left 2 years ago after doing all 6 years, nearly killed me) that I “forgot” I was gay during the working day and was so busy doing homework and reading that I didn't have time back then. I also took a variety of drugs with pain-killing properties, which I won't list here but were very good at putting me into lala land (I am not going near them again so they are out!). <br />
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I'll be damned if I can remember what I did back then fully or how effective it was. Nobody said to my face that I was homo so it seems to have worked nicely anyway. Like I said, I need some way of forgetting and covering up that I'm gay. <br />
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The aims are:<br />
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* Be able to walk into a room containing males and not even register their presence in my brain<br />
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* Be able to be near a hot male(s) and not even think he's hot<br />
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* Ensure that nobody else knows I'm gay (even to the extent whereupon I forget myself)<br />
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Oh yes, I forgot to mention that I am not religious so that will complicate matters a lot I am sure! <br />
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I'll be interested to see what anyone says.<br />
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Oh yes, I am also back at college on 6th September so I need to be safely closeted and on the straight and narrow (no pun intended) by then or there will be trouble!<br />
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Thanks!<br />
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			<title>Advise about girls and relationships</title>
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			<pubDate>Sat, 28 Aug 2010 22:56:58 GMT</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>OK, im in a situation and really don’t know what to do for the best, so im asking for the thoughts of you great open minded people here on adisc.<br />
Basically when I was traveling last year I ended up in Thailand with a group of people, one of which was a German girl who I got on with really well.  Nothing happened between us whilst we were there but we became really good friends and kept in touch regularly. She already speaks very good English and would like to become a teacher in Germany teaching English. She is currently waiting to start her course which lasts for 5 years so whilst she had some time she decided to come over to the UK for a week. She stayed with me and we had great fun seeing all the classic British things and also some camping.<br />
During this time I didn’t realize it but I had become quite attached to her and whilst nothing happened again, I was gutted when she left to go home. So much so I was nearly crying which is very unlike me and it shook me up for a couple of days. This made me realize I really did like her and I found out that day that she had felt the same way about me :)<br />
My dilemma is that she is back in Germany, and the southern part of it! I have a full time job that’s going places and I have a good career ahead of me here but I really like her. My feelings have faded a little since she has been gone (almost a week now) but I put that down to being really busy moving out of home (which is also exciting but daunting at the same time for me right now) and also with my job. We have spoken nearly every day on Skype and she has really fallen for me. Im worried we wont be able to keep a relationship going and wont see each other very much at all. Especially as we haven’t had any time together as a couple yet so don’t quite have that bond, if you get me... She is perfect for me though, shares the same outlooks in life, makes me laugh, is fun loving and hopefully can put up with me for the rest of her life!<br />
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So my questions to you guys are;<br />
Should I do it and commit to a relationship with someone who is nearly 1000 miles away and about to start a 5 year uni course? <br />
Also, if I do, when should I tell her about my slight <acronym title="Adult Baby">AB</acronym> mostly <acronym title="Diaper Lover">DL</acronym> tendencies? Its never been a question of &quot;if&quot; I tell a long term partner for me, im just not sure if I should get it out the way early incase she doesn’t like it or wait to make sure she’s the one then risk everything we’ve worked for... I think she finds my childishness cute :o IDK...<br />
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			<description><![CDATA[I've come across sporadic posts touching on whether or not an AB/DL should tell a partner about being AB/DL.  
 
I'm not an AB/DL but met someone who...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>I've come across sporadic posts touching on whether or not an <acronym title="Adult Baby">AB</acronym>/<acronym title="Diaper Lover">DL</acronym> should tell a partner about being <acronym title="Adult Baby">AB</acronym>/<acronym title="Diaper Lover">DL</acronym>. <br />
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I'm not an <acronym title="Adult Baby">AB</acronym>/<acronym title="Diaper Lover">DL</acronym> but met someone who confided in me and who I am now in a committed relationship with. For those of you who have told partners about being <acronym title="Adult Baby">AB</acronym>/<acronym title="Diaper Lover">DL</acronym> (or non-<acronym title="Adult Baby">AB</acronym>/<acronym title="Diaper Lover">DL</acronym> partners who were told), how did it happen? How did you tell your partner? How did he/she respond? Would you do it the same way if you had to do it over again?<br />
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And for those non-<acronym title="Adult Baby">AB</acronym>/<acronym title="Diaper Lover">DL</acronym>, what did you think? How did your partner tell you?</div>

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			<title>The Hills Have Eyes</title>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>Okay, I am sure that I am not the only one who lives in a town that constantly makes one ask &quot;IS THERE SOMETHING IN THE WATER?!&quot; while thrusting you pointed finger wildly in the air like Lewis Black. Who else lives in a town where you have stories like this;<br />
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The year after I graduated high school there was this big scandal in my town. A man was arrested for all kinds of charges when his elderly mother's doctor became concerned he had not have a visit with her in several months. The wheels started turning and one day John Law was knocking on his door. Upon searching his home the police discovered his mother was dead. Autopsy later determined it to be of natural causes. Not only was she dead, but he had been concealing her body and the odor produced by decomposition by covering her corpse with cat litter. <br />
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With such stories as &quot;Psycho&quot; firmly planted in all of our subconscious, not to mention the mommy issues that some of us must have, it seems reasonable one could bend the mind to such a twisted place to think he did it out of love, and inability to separate from her. If that is what you think, I think Kevin Spacey said it best as Lex Luthor when he said &quot;WROOOONG!&quot; It was just good old fashioned plain and simple GREED. He was forging her signature to continue to collect her social security checks. <br />
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The guy had at one time ran for mayor of this town. <br />
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That isn't even the best part, the chief of police lived across the street from him. <br />
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(Just to drive the point home what kind of cop this guy is; Last year he was charged with providing alcohol to minors, and didn't even lose his job.)</div>

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			<title>Meeting Academic Goals?</title>
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			<description>I have been attending some workshops at my university before the real classes begin. One class was talking about memory and focusing. The presenter...</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>I have been attending some workshops at my university before the real classes begin. One class was talking about memory and focusing. The presenter suggested that when you discipline yourself and fulfill that goal you should reward yourself, such as eat a piece of chocolate, go see a movie with your friends, or hang out with them for 10 minutes, stuff like that.  <br />
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an example of this would be like you set the goal of studying for 30 minutes, if you do that with out wondering off from that goal you reward yourself to condition yourself that every time you do well, you will be rewarded.<br />
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My question is this...we talked about what to do to reward yourself, but what should be done if you fail to meet that goal of studying for 30 minutes? What should be done to punish yourself? It only makes sense that if you are rewarded for good behavior that there must be another  end of the spectrum. <br />
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Example: You set a goal to study for 30 minutes, but you study for 10 and draw shapes in your notebook for another 45 minutes. <br />
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Something has to be done to condition you to never do that again. So, what should be used/done as punishment? <br />
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I have put a bit of thought into it, only a little, but still some. I have hypothesized that you would need very strict punishments guidelines for failing to meet a goal, such as burning your arms, belting yourself, beating yourself, etc for failing to meet a goal. <br />
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An example of this working was in the Belgian Congo in the early 20th century. If a slave failed to meet the rubber quota for the week or month(depending on the region) an overseer would cut off their hand. This was a VERY extreme method of punishment, but it at least struck the fear into the amputee and the others who saw to meet rubber quotas or face the consequences. <br />
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So my point is this... the method to punishment yourself for failing to study, etc should be very severe and painful to condition yourself to never fail to meet that goal again. <br />
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I want to hear your input as well, what other methods could be used to punish yourself for failing to meet an academic gaol?</div>

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			<title>I would like help regarding a persistent religious friend....</title>
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			<pubDate>Tue, 24 Aug 2010 21:44:29 GMT</pubDate>
			<description>First of all, I would like to state that my intentions are not harmful. Therefore, please do not invade this thread with preachings from the Bible...</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>First of all, I would like to state that my intentions are not harmful. Therefore, please do not invade this thread with preachings from the Bible condemning me to Hell. We'll leave that for another thread, if necessary. I mention the fact that my &quot;friend&quot; is a hard-core evangelist only because it helps to provide better context for my situation.<br />
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Now, I cut to the chase. <br />
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I have this &quot;friend&quot; I met a couple of years back. At the time, I was emotionally vulnerable because I was exploring my place in the world and contemplating the meaning of life. We thought it fun and intellectually-engaging to discuss these things. However, I'm basically an agnostic atheist--no God, no religion.<br />
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To humor her, I've made a point of going to her services a few times--to show that I do respect HER. However, I've also made it clear to her that I have no intention of ever following a formal religion--hers particularly. Yet, every time she visits, she tries to guilt-trip me into her religion. She usually ends the conversation with something along the lines of &quot;it's too bad you don't want to be saved&quot; before (literally) walking away.<br />
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How can I deal with this? She can be a fun person otherwise, and she has much worth respecting. I've tried telling her that I respect her beliefs and that she doesn't need to worry about me--but this is where I get stuck, logically. I don't really have a good reason to provide, since our belief systems seem (or are) incompatible. Do you think you could help provide me a better reason, without getting into a debate as to whether God exists or not? <br />
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Otherwise, I am seriously considering breaking off with her completely because she consistently fails to respect my own beliefs--particularly by trying to guilt-trip me into her religion. The worst part is that she tries to manipulate me because she knows I care about <i>part</i> of her (though that <i>part</i> is shrinking faster and faster!) and that she knows I know she cares about me (she seems to think we are supposed to be God-given soul-mates or something...she evidently thinks about me quite a bit:sweatdrop:. Besides that, I'm not interested in women.) I will NOT, absolutely NOT, allow myself to be manipulated and guilt-tripped by her, and I wish to find a good way to make that clear to her without making her my enemy. <br />
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After all, she is a very smart person:wallbash:, and the last thing I want is an enraged (or disappointed) Evangelist at my back. I don't want to be friends with her, but I don't want to be enemies either. At least she lives a hundred miles away while I'm at college.<br />
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How might I best approach this?</div>

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			<title><![CDATA[Stolen Valor Act & Providers Choice]]></title>
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			<pubDate>Tue, 24 Aug 2010 17:41:25 GMT</pubDate>
			<description>At the request of tbcris (http://www.adisc.org/forum/members/tbchris.html) I am moving this issue to a more private thread; however, I still think it...</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>At the request of <a href="http://www.adisc.org/forum/members/tbchris.html" target="_blank">tbcris</a> I am moving this issue to a more private thread; however, I still think it should be a huge concern to people how a business markets their products and services to the public.<br />
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There are no results for Web Site URL 'www.activediapers.com'<br />
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</div> Maybe it is not illegal to tell people that you are accredited or hold credentials that you really do not have in order to make yourself look better and make money.<br />
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This reminders of the <a href="http://www.nbclosangeles.com/news/local-beat/Stolen-Valor-Act-Ruling-101023089.html" target="_blank"><b>appeals court ruling</b></a> that makes it legal to tell people you have a Purple Heart and yet never served a day in the military.<br />
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So the question - <b>Is it right for businesses (or even people) to tell others that they are accredited or hold a rank/medal and yet never subscribe to an organizations bylaws or served time in the military let alone obtaining a ranking regardless of how that organization requires one to do so?</b></div>

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			<title>Telling?</title>
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			<description><![CDATA[If I tell my psych. that I tried to kill myself 4 years ago, can she report me to the authorities? I want to tell her about that "episode", but am...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>If I tell my psych. that I tried to kill myself 4 years ago, can she report me to the authorities? I want to tell her about that &quot;episode&quot;, but am scared that I will be imprisoned.</div>

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			<title><![CDATA[The "Ground Zero Mosque" vs reality]]></title>
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			<pubDate>Mon, 23 Aug 2010 04:55:41 GMT</pubDate>
			<description><![CDATA[Okay, here's what makes me angry, sad and depressed  - the people arguing against the "ground zero mosque".  In case you haven't heard this nonsense,...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>Okay, here's what makes me angry, sad and depressed  - the people arguing against the &quot;ground zero mosque&quot;.  In case you haven't heard this nonsense, here's a brief refresher:<br />
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A few blocks away from the site of the World Trade Center in New York is a planned 13-floor building that used to be a Burlington Coat Factory.  The idea is that it will be a community center with a gym, a culinary school, a theater, a swimming pool, a fitness center, a childcare center, an auditorium, a food court, basketball court, and among other things, a prayer room.  A year ago, this was cheered on by pretty much everybody in the area as a wonderful way to revitalize the neighborhood which is considered a little sleazy (there's a stripclub right across the street) and run-down.  Unfortunately, some right-wing fucknuts have been making a scene over it, calling it a &quot;victory mosque&quot;.<br />
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There have been attempts by Pat Robertson's team of lawyers to stop it, Newt Gingrich and Sarah Palin have both made statements that it shouldn't happen, and Fox News has basically been making shit up about it.<br />
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Okay people, this is bad.  <a href="http://www.cracked.com/blog/3-reasons-the-ground-zero-mosque-debate-makes-no-sense/" target="_blank">Cracked Magazine</a>, a comedy website usually devoted to making lists about why boobs are awesome and which obscure piece of 80s childhood nostalgia is most underrated, is actually making more sense on this issue than the American right wing.  This is how bad it's become, people.  This is how far America has sunk.  The juvenile specialists in all things toilet humor, Transformers and vagina-related are making more sense on a political issue than Fox News.  It was bad when the Daily Show hit that level, and it was worse when the crazy shit Glenn Beck spouts is more crazy than the in-character stuff said by Stephen Colbert, but this is CRACKED MAGAZINE.  They make a web series about a guy who eats nothing but chicken nuggets, eats board game pieces because he thinks they're candy and is barely literate.  They have an article posted right now outlining 7 reasons why a zombie outbreak wouldn't happen.  AND THEY ARE MAKING MORE SENSE THAN THE RIGHT WING IN AMERICAN POLITICS.  <br />
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So this is a message to Fox News, Sarah Palin, Newt Gingrich, Rick Lazio, Glenn Beck and anyone who supports any of the above:  You should all be deeply ashamed of yourselves.  Seriously, are you so lacking in self-awareness that you don't see how ridiculous you look right now?  You're arguing against a community center and you can't even list a reason why that is based in reality.  This is why you're called racists or bigots - because you argue fervently against stuff like this, with reasons that have no basis at all in the real world.  When the crazy crap you spout as your motivation is completely and demonstrably false, we have only two choices.  We can either assume that the reasons you ACTUALLY have are so embarrassingly hideous that you don't want to say them out loud, or you're intentionally ignorant on the issues at hand.  <br />
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So take a good, hard look at yourself and feel shame.  For once, feel shame at the stupid shit you let fall out of your mouths, and for the dumbass shit you let someone cram in to your head.</div>

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