Diapers and marriage
by, 03-Sep-2014 at 04:44 (579 Views)
I've tried searching for the right forum to connect with other married diaper lovers, but I haven't managed to find the correct spot, so I figured I would start a blog entry. I'm not big on blogs, but where else.
Me, I'm married, 25+ years, to a wonderful lady, who knew of my diaper desires just as soon as it became obvious to me that she was "the one". It wasn't easy to broach the subject, since everything had been going pretty good for us both, in our newfound friendship. My diaper collection, at that point, amounted to a few pairs of my favorite plastic pants, the occasional kid diaper purchases I'd made over the years, and a collection of over two hundred Forum Magazines, many with diaper content being hidden in the overall collection.
I'd had many unfulfilling relationships in the years prior, but we were both adults now, and this was adult love, no doubt about it. Before long, the proposal was made, and our life together started. In the early days, diapers definitely played a back seat to all of our other activities, but one thing that was different was that instead of using plastic panties for my sexual releases, I was now making love like man & woman typically do. It was great. It was adult. It was new and awesome. Not to be forgotten, there was diaper play. At that point, it tended more towards diaper wearing, with the difference being that adult diapers were now a part of my "collection". I wasn't having orgasms in diapers, per se, but I was getting to experiment with things a bit, with my wife trying to wind her way through my fetish, and still feel wanted & desired. We got pregnant not too far down the road and had a son, adding a boy to her two girls, from a previous marriage. Life was good. We were busy. I was a business owner, so there was always something needing to be done.
The years began to stack up on us, with many memorable diaper episodes, and some not too memorable. We worked nearly constantly on righting the ship, but powerful forces kept us off kilter. At about this same time, I began to connect with DPF, when it was Diaper Pail Fraternity. I bought stuff from them, wrote a story they published, and just basically looked forward to that monthly/sporadic newsletter. At the same time BBS's were starting to spring up around the country, and if you searched hard enough, you could actually find ones related to diapers. My local BBS was Bytemine, a well rounded bulletin board with plenty to do, including downloading those first ever pics & stories of actual human adults wearing & enjoying diapers! I'm figuring this was in the late 1980's, and very early 1990's.
There were also the newsgroups, Alt.Sex.Fetish.Diapers, Alt.Binaries,Pictures.Erotica.Fetish.Diapers, Alt.Fan.Dean-Stark, and a couple more. IRC was also becoming more widely known, so if you found a IRC client, and a server with diaper rooms, you could actually connect in real time and have a diaper related chat with someone from around the planet. Life was full of new stuff, and the only thing was, it took a lot of time to be with it all, and it took a fair amount of computer & modem knowledge to access this stuff. Of course, this was all being done in the name of (diaper & computer) knowledge, so carry on, young soldier!
Anyway, during this same time, many efforts were made to include diapers in the marriage and lovemaking process, sometimes successfully, and sometimes not. Still, it was all brand new, and a person needed to figure their passage through the networks, the family issues, the job issues, and just life, in general. Our first major marriage disagreements began to surface, mostly about money & business related matters, but diapers were never very far from the core of the disenchantment, from the marital perspective.
More to come.