The "Little" Feeling -- the 8th blog
by, 29-May-2014 at 06:41 (444 Views)
so i recently was having a conversation, and in that conversation discussion about helping someone understand the "Fetish and/or Lifestyle". What ways could one do this?
it was talked about maybe sharing part of this with them. but the question is what about when they don't want to partake.
How do you communicate to some one what it means to be "little"? What it feels like?
personally being little feels fuzzy, like a cloud, and clarity, just different. its definitely different. I have notices merger moments where i feel "little" during adult moments. (like when i see giant boxes and i want to play in the space ship!!!!!) Cute things really grab my attention. like stuffies, I just want all of them. and i want to hug them all.
colors when feeling little are bright and distracting, so distracting, its so weird but its like a brain eraser. ( i think bright colors are a slight trigger)
sillyness, and shy movements (which are things not feelings, but they feel when little)
How do you tell someone that you don't need support in a certain way, but in a completely different way?
I dont know how to do this with out sounding utterly insane to my wife. I mean really every thing i just said, i am sure sounds clinically insane.
I realized today, That my wife has been supportive in her way. which is normal by all standards, but it doesn't register to me as an adult because as an adult I am not looking for that from her. Her feeling sorry for a situation doesn't make sense to me because a situation is what it is. Her being proud of my work doesn't register to me because i do it because its necessary. basically i am a robot adult... beep boop. And she definitely doesn't want to be "mommy" , shes married to a man and shes a woman.
Which comes to the hardest part. The "little" needs to be supported, like a child, bla bla bla. we've all read it. the little is where i need to be shown i am making her proud because that's where i care the most about that. (a penny for every time some one has said this)
When i am feeling little that is where i need the "your doing a good job",and stuff. (and again)
does any one else understand what i am getting at?
this may belong in the regular forum but maybe not. I will be back later to respond, i am leaving town for a day.
so quick recap.
1.What does being Little feel like to you? sensation, smell, sight. does your brain feel different, tiny, fuzzy ? -mine does-
2.If you have done so, how did you explain this to some one else(this may be answered by the first question).
Bonus. words like mommy or care taker/ carer , are scary ... to other people. what is a non aggressive term for some one who just looks after me every once in a while? not baby sitter either. - i don't think i need my wife to be called mommy. although it could be nice, I think i would be able to do with her name. but she doesn't want to be a mommy.
also keep in mind that the audience in question would be a completely vanilla person. i look forward to reading every ones responses. so here's to awesome