kerry

I would say that is the mood you are in. If you want to be a toddler during this time be a toddler. If you want to be a smaller one then be it for your play time./ Some people have different ages they like to be.

Me I'm stuck at being a baby of 1 1/2 to 2 but I have always been that. It is part of me, not role play.
I am one of those people who are both adult and baby.

I'm not a AB so all I can suggest is what I've noticed from people on here.

I seems like a lot of AB's either instinctively know what age they are or develop the personality over a period of time. That you are having this quandary makes me think you fit into the second group but I wouldn't worry about it, you have all the fun and excitement of exploring this new little ahead of you.

Abs regress to a variety of ages, and sometimes change ages as well. The key is to find what feels right to you. It may even be a combination of behaviors from different age groups. I, for example, view myself as a three-year-old, but a very babyish three-year-old, still in diapers, sucking a paci, and generally needing a lot of care and attention.

Yep, welcome to the world of being little. Not having a set age is totally normal. When I roleplay as Matilda, I see myself as being about five biologically, but mentally I'm all over the place. Anywhere from under two to ten or eleven, maturity-wise. It's normal to have a number of ages, as the previous commenters have said.

And not wanting to be a baby all the time is also normal. I can't regress when I'm really stressed, or over-emotional, or too busy. Sometimes I just can't, for no reason at all. It's probably a good thing, actually, that you don't want to regress all the time...we need to be adults too!

You'll figure it out as you go. We're all working it out. Just do what feels natural at the time. We usually have preferred or more common mental states or activities, and your Daddy will start to see them over time. You're OK - it'll just take getting used to for both of you!