Remark to multiple threads.
by, 06-Apr-2013 at 04:06 (555 Views)
I have taken several hours to composs this blogin my head. My first major concern is that I am myself guilty of some of the very concerns that I am talking about.
I read and reread a thread in I believe Diaper talk about dating medical professionals. A discussion about personality and reactions goes to a steriotype discussion. People have different jobs and different abilities. I have done the dirty part of the research picture and know for a fact that letters and periods do not mean practical knowledge. But outside of work they are just people that like to deal with stuff or not. It does not have to do with degrees or anything other then personal life.
I have a very serious consern about a contributer that asked for help and was blindsided with non compassion. The facts that were presented were 'truthful", but no explanation was offered. She has not been back and I am worried. I am not a greenhorn any more, but I am still trying to get all of this information and self dought under control. What I saw, in my opinion, was experienced people that have an understsnding of this 'CONDITION' literaturely belittle a very vulnerable newbe when they asked for help with one of the hardest part of organizing your uncertenties as you come to grips with self acceptance.
Then I have also seen and responded to threads that critisize grammer. It was one persons opinion, and I responded, and there is points that are valid, but the discussion was not kind at times.
Then again I have reponded to a thread in I believe off topic and was strongly critisized for what I said. This is a discussion, but unfortunatly I use a wrong word (similar to what was ment, but diferent in application), so IMO the content was not discussed. Instead I was given a diagnosis for a mental condition by someone that on another thread said this would never happen.
I have also seen and responded to a thread in adult baby that was an expression of someones thoughts about AB and Sexual implications. I responded as controlled as possible but now I am not sure if I was as kind as I should have.
Yet on another thread shortly after I joined some one expressed concerns about the "reality" of the infantilism and stopping. I know I responded as a confussed newbe and that I was (am) just attempting to come to grips with something that I have fought with for 40+ years and has contributed significantly to my ongoing clinical depression.
I am so happy that I joined this group. My life has changed so much in the last 10 weeks, but things are still in need of improvement and gaining understanding. I am just expressing a concern about some things I have seen in the last few days, and I have expressed my concern to a very good friend that I have made here. But I thought I would express these thoughts on this format to cover a wide sellection of forums.
I have a couple of spelling errors, and sure typos. My computer is toast so I am using my wifes' which has sticking keys, which makes my typing even worse. The main point is that both computers do not like the spell check and the computers seams not to want to interface with web sight.
I have said enough, I have made every attempt to be professional about my thoughts. If I have offended anyone I will apalogize now.