Help with sex...
by, 27-Jan-2012 at 14:08 (685 Views)
I posted this in the diaper talk section in response to the idea of "Wanting incontinence"
But this is a bit of a problem to me.
Not to be too graphic, but as someone who has just gotten married I can share a rather sad side to IC. I was a virgin so I had no prior experience but everyone told me, "Oh you will be like a bottle rocket. You will stick it in and BAM" I was surprised to find out that I lasted a lot longer than that.... too long. My wife still does not feel much and it is made harder by the fact that it is difficult to keep an erection. I always pictured sex being an amazing, thrilling experience. Now it is a sad state of feeling that I am not pleasing my wife. I am going to look into help with my doctor, possibly viagra. This is due to IC, so you might want to think about which route you desire, incontinence or subpar sex.
For those who have healthy sexual lives, have you experienced this? How do you cope?