Thanks for the suggestions. My wife just discovered my training pants. I have kept my ABDL in my head to get an erection for masturbation until recently I purchased some cloth diapers, training pants and plastic pants and really liked peeing and pooping in my pants but went through a purge because I was so afraid of being discovered. Then bought more and was found out by my wife. I explained my lifelong fascination with ABDL but she did not want to talk about the details, then I just wore them to bed the next night and she didn't care for it. I asked her to accept me like this and she said it was asking a lot. I would like her to accept it even if she does not want to be involved with it. At the very least, I would like to wear my baby things in the evening at home even if I wear them under my PJs or pants. I certainly do not intend to force this issue. We have been married for a long time and I do not intend for my interest in baby things to harm my marriage any further. I will get rid of my baby things if my wife cannot accept me wearing them.