What We Discussed
by, 26-Jun-2015 at 02:07 (519 Views)
So today we corresponded over text about the specifics of our meeting.
Firstly we talked about our limits. As expected mine was a bit longer than hers but luckily she had no qualms with the no sexual activity part so that's a huge plus. I asked her if she felt confident with her role and what it entailed and she told me that in her readings she ran into a couple things she wasn't sure if I would be up to. After talking about those couple things and going over what I was and wasn't up for we talked about if she had a plan for activities and how long the first time would be. While she had a few things in mind she wasn't sure how she wanted to end it but I expressed the need for defined stopping point whether that be a time constraint or an activities list. In addition to this I asked her if she had any rules in mind for me during our sessions. She basically just said listen and cooperate and that since I don't plan on talking (as per a previous suggestion that it was a mood-killer) that she doesn't expect back-talk to be a problem. Discipline was also discussed and she (unfortunately for me) said that spanking me is something she isn't sure she could do but that the more she thought about it the more she warmed up to the concept so we'll see.
After those things we got down to the nitty-gritty; changing and hygiene. Earlier her and I discussed and she stated that while she felt a bit apprehensive to the actual act of cleaning that she would most definitely try it and that she would probably be fine after the first one. I asked her what she thought about a changing schedule to which she said there could be a sign I could give for her to change me since she wasn't aware of how long I would be okay being left in a wet diaper. I assured her that I spend a long time in them when I embrace my DL side so I would prefer if she just checked and changed at her own leisure to which she accepted. The last thing I asked her about was shaving my... down there area. She said that it would be up to me and I'm not sure if I'm going to do that or not. Opinions anyone?
Well tomorrow I'll have the house to myself after 5PM and until the next morning so I plan to head out to the store and pick up my first bottle and pacifier as well as some wipes. Tomorrow will be the first time I ever actually indulged in any sort of AB activities so I'm interested to see how I like it =)
More updates as they come!