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redtails · 07-08-2008

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Originally Posted by Dave

I mean look at it this way worst case scenario you keep hating yourself create a split personality that looks like Brad Pitt and start making soap and then start a fight club after you blow up your house and move into a shit hole of a house near a paper mill then you start recruiting people for project Mayhem and then blow up several credit buildings and you reset the debt records. I don't know how this will help you I just figured it was so random that it'd put a smile on your face. Plus since when does the movie version of Fight Club not make people smile because of the awesomeness.

P.S. I was really surprised awesomeness is actually a word.

P.S.S. Seriously though man we are all here for you and if you ever need to talk to anyone I am always on my aim account

that just sounded like a soft version of /b/ if you ask me

Tommy · 07-08-2008

internship?

i hate england lol

Dave · 07-08-2008

It's basically where you work some place for no money and they call it a learning experience. However it does look great on a resume so I think I'm going to have to do it whether or not London is sweet

tom · 07-08-2008

Dave- I love London..the buzz, its great.

Back to the point- Tommy, there's no need to feel horrible. Everybody has a kink, a difference to the next person..some people are afraid of buttons, some people have a great love for feet, and some people are *b/dls. There isnt such thing as normal...we're all unique. But that doesnt mean we're bad, or wierd. And so what if we're wierd..doesnt mean thats a bad thing. Yeah it's rare...but its not bad. But I think it's unusual to feel wierd and different, like there's something wrong with you. I do sometimes...infact I do quite a lot. But as you get older, achieve more...and become more confident of yourself, you'll learn to accept yourself (thats what people tell me anyway), your kinks...and other people's aswell. Here for you, Tom

ballucanb · 07-08-2008

Cheer up Tommy everybody has bad days or bad spells that we go through, just try to keep yourself happy, I have spent most of my life alone, and at times it's tough.

I know how you feel, just try to make the best of your day, when you start makeing a little money you can spend on yourself buy something that makes you happy, it may be a camera, or a computer, or a big TV if your into that kind of stuff.

Nobody is happy all the time, it's part of your job to keep yourself happy...Good Luck hope you feel happy soon.

Allanon · 07-08-2008

I can't tell you how long I tried to deny the AB & Furry parts of me. When I finally started to indulge a bit, I felt incredibly guilty, hated myself, and got rid of anything and everything related to it.

Sometime later, I finally realized I'd just accepted it and didn't care anymore. It takes time, and it's perfectly normal not to be completely happy with it.

Being a diaperfur probably makes me a combination of two of the absolute WEIRDEST internet communities =/. I can't even say I don't let it bother me anymore - because it's not a bother at all anymore. You can't ignore something that isn't there!

Like Darkfinn said, you need some self-reflection I guess. You probably won't be ok with it all at once, but after awhile, the constant societal attitude of "different is evil" gets burned out of your system and you'll be perfectly happy with who you are

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Tommy · 07-08-2008

wow guys, your brilliant!

ballucanb · 07-08-2008

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tommy

wow guys, your brilliant!

We Know that....LOL

dakota#15 · 07-08-2008

i have been having the same problem lately, ever since i told my mom (should be the other way) We really can't help, only give advise. *b/DL is a part of your life. If it can't go away, try to make the best of any situation. i have been really working hard on that lately. Just have fun, and dont worry about it. it will fade away

Zyph · 07-08-2008

As has been said, this is a normal phase. Just about everyone here has gone through it before. There is nothing actually wrong, it's probably your mind looking at your surrounding and seeing it's not the norm, thus making you feel outcast and want to get rid of it. Just know that there's nothing wrong with this as far, it's safe, hurting no one, and doesn't need to needlessly involve anyone. Good luck on everything and I wish you well.

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tom They Key To Your Life Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: South England Age: 16 Posts: 448 Threads: 30 Blog Entries: 1	Dave- I love London..the buzz, its great. Back to the point- Tommy, there's no need to feel horrible. Everybody has a kink, a difference to the next person..some people are afraid of buttons, some people have a great love for feet, and some people are b/dls. There isnt such thing as normal...we're all unique. But that doesnt mean we're bad, or wierd. And so what if we're wierd..doesnt mean thats a bad thing. Yeah it's rare...but its not bad*. But I think it's unusual to feel wierd and different, like there's something wrong with you. I do sometimes...infact I do quite a lot. But as you get older, achieve more...and become more confident of yourself, you'll learn to accept yourself (thats what people tell me anyway), your kinks...and other people's aswell. Here for you, Tom

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ballucanb Regular Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: none Posts: 1,304 Threads: 3	Cheer up Tommy everybody has bad days or bad spells that we go through, just try to keep yourself happy, I have spent most of my life alone, and at times it's tough. I know how you feel, just try to make the best of your day, when you start makeing a little money you can spend on yourself buy something that makes you happy, it may be a camera, or a computer, or a big TV if your into that kind of stuff. Nobody is happy all the time, it's part of your job to keep yourself happy...Good Luck hope you feel happy soon.

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Allanon Lurker Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Midwest, USA Age: 21 Posts: 184 Threads: 2 Wiki Edits: 1 Reputation: 8	I can't tell you how long I tried to deny the AB & Furry parts of me. When I finally started to indulge a bit, I felt incredibly guilty, hated myself, and got rid of anything and everything related to it. Sometime later, I finally realized I'd just accepted it and didn't care anymore. It takes time, and it's perfectly normal not to be completely happy with it. Being a diaperfur probably makes me a combination of two of the absolute WEIRDEST internet communities =/. I can't even say I don't let it bother me anymore - because it's not a bother at all anymore. You can't ignore something that isn't there! Like Darkfinn said, you need some self-reflection I guess. You probably won't be ok with it all at once, but after awhile, the constant societal attitude of "different is evil" gets burned out of your system and you'll be perfectly happy with who you are .

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Tommy Regular Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: England Age: 16 Posts: 316 Threads: 27 Reputation: 6	wow guys, your brilliant!

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dakota#15 Regular Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: orange county ca Age: 15 Posts: 99 Threads: 5 Gallery Uploads: 2 Reputation: 1	i have been having the same problem lately, ever since i told my mom (should be the other way) We really can't help, only give advise. *b/DL is a part of your life. If it can't go away, try to make the best of any situation. i have been really working hard on that lately. Just have fun, and dont worry about it. it will fade away

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Zyph RAWR! Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: California Age: 17 Posts: 321 Threads: 11 Gallery Uploads: 10	As has been said, this is a normal phase. Just about everyone here has gone through it before. There is nothing actually wrong, it's probably your mind looking at your surrounding and seeing it's not the norm, thus making you feel outcast and want to get rid of it. Just know that there's nothing wrong with this as far, it's safe, hurting no one, and doesn't need to needlessly involve anyone. Good luck on everything and I wish you well.