wow, close call.

[wetatnight]

all I'm saying is parents do find out your secrets eventually.
and if she feels that your hiding some thing she wont stop tell she finds out what your hideing.
she may suspect it any way and especially with nosey neighbors.
if he tells her she may be relieved. that it's not some thing sexual or drugs or whate ever.
she may not like the idea of her son wearing diapers, but theirs alot worse things, you could be doing.

[Trevor]

Originally Posted by wetatnight

all I'm saying is parents do find out your secrets eventually. and if she feels that your hiding some thing she wont stop tell she finds out what your hideing.

That's not true in my experience (I moved out a long time back) and I can recall a number of other members who haven't shared this with their parents. This is an unusual enough thing that even if a parent discovers the physical evidence, they may well not understand the purpose of the items or their significance. Telling is a personal decision where one weighs the pros and cons. Myself, I don't see many pros and I see many cons, but mileage obviously varies.

she may suspect it any way and especially with nosey neighbors.
if he tells her she may be relieved. that it's not some thing sexual or drugs or whate ever. she may not like the idea of her son wearing diapers, but theirs alot worse things, you could be doing.

Many worse things from our perspective, but depending on the viewpoint of the parent, this could be a huge deal all on its own or something relatively minor. As to whether it's sexual or not, that varies by person as well, and a discussion of what turns me on is pretty far down my list of things I care to do with my parents.

[dakota#15]

wow, i just told her. here is the convo:

me: Hey mom, can i talk to you?
her: Yea, what's on your mind.
me: i need to tell you something, but your gonna think im weird...
Her: no i wont.
me: sigh, ok, i dont want you to think differently than you have the past 4 years and change your thought just cause im telling you this.
her: your gay aren't you?
Me: No! mom im not gay.
her: you got your girlfriend pregnant. god i knew it
me: no, not that either.
her: ok... what else. You smoke pot?
me: no...i dont smoke, you know that's why i hate my father
her: ok, what is it
me: uhhh, nevermind, i dont want to say it
her: you need to tell me. tell me now.
me: Goddammit, ok. I...
her: yes?
me: I, I like...
her: you like...men? sex? cocaine?
me: i like to... wear...
her: wear girls underwear?
Her eyes widened.
her: does this have anything to do with babies?
me: yea, sorta. (my eyes started tearing)
her: Does it have anything to do with the box you got the other day?
me: yea...
her: does it involve diapers?
me: yes. i like to wear diapers (pretty much crying, can't really talk)
her: it's ok honey. i wont tell anyone
me: you wont?
her: i respect that, and i think that you did a good job telling someone on such a private thing.
me: you aren't mad?
her: no, although it is a little strange. Not regular i would say. even though i dont like it, i will support you
me: you always told me to be different. (relieved)
her: yea...i did, i guess you listened to me.
me: please though, dont tell jeff
her: why not?
me: because he just spent $1500 on a mountain bike, and if u did he would say babies can't ride bikes. or babies can't use computers.
her: ok, our little secret?
me: no, (GF's name) knows too.
her: ok, so our three secret/
me: yea, i guess. Do you mind me like, you know. wearing around the house?
her: i dont mind, but if jeff finds out, then your siblings are gonna know.
me: ok, your the best mom.
her: yea yea whatever.





im so relieved that now i can buy diapers off the internet and only have to worry aboout my step dad finding out, but he works from 4am to 9pm so that's gotta be hard. So know my girlfriend and my mom. i feel so much better and i dont feel depressed anymore. Such a big load off my chest. I wouldn't never of been able to do it without this site. Thank you Adisc

[Pojo]

Sounds nervewracking...Although she didn't seem to want to know...Even at the end, she was like "yea yea whatever"...

[dakota#15]

yea, she still is a little weird around me. i was pretty damn scared

[Mr Alex]

WHAT, not fair.

Do you have a good life dakota? It sure seems like it.

[Incomplete Dude]

wow, very nice I'm glad things worked out for you.

[dakota#15]

Originally Posted by Mr Alex

WHAT, not fair.

Do you have a good life dakota? It sure seems like it.

i like my life. even though my dad's side of the family is neglected, pot smoking, kid beating ass holes i like my life. (my dad beat me when i was a baby, i think that is why i was attracted to diapers, have a happy babyhood) Ive had a lot of deaths in the family lately, so i think my mom was more understanding that she would've normally been

[Peachy]

Originally Posted by dakota#15

yea, she still is a little weird around me. i was pretty damn scared

You can hardly expect her to go back to normal in an hour or so. She has to process that new information and may think it's weird for the rest of your life. However, eventually she may just forget about the whole thing unless she comes across your diapers again.

Peachy

[Darkfinn]

I would give her some space for a bit... and just make sure to be clean about the whole diaper thing... treat them like the rest of your underwear... and dispose of the used ones properly... you should be ok.