Close Calls

[oblivionxi1]

Originally Posted by dprdinky

That was close oblivionxi1. Would be interested to know what your response would actually be if your mom actually found out you were wearing?

Well, I imagine she would be scared shitless at first like "is my son a pedophile?" type deal. Anyways, lets just say she finds me out that night. She would probably turn around and leave as if she walked in on #3 (if you get my meaning) I would get dressed, go over to her and ask her what exactly she saw. If she didn't see what I thought she saw I would play it out from there, ask her what do you expect a 15 yo does in his room alone. If she saw the diapers, and she said she saw them, I would immediatly bring up the understanding infantilism page and ask her to read the whole thing carfully. After that it can take many directions. I imagine my mom would stay calm about it either way. So, she reads it over, avoiding eye contact ask her exactly what her point of view of the subject is. If she says "what does this mean?" I would answer with telling her thats me, im an infantilist, reassuring her that pedophilia is something completly different. She may also ask if I was on drugs, obviously not. If this was the first question, I would ask her if she understood the content on the website. If yes, I would ask her if she knew what I was. If no, I would explain to her that WE are a group of PEOPLE that simply find joy in being children. Putting pressure that its not just me, its alot of us. If she asks why I would come back with "because thats what we like, we cant change it, its no ones fault, it cant be changed". If she became hostile with the matter I would stay calm and ask her "Would you rather have found me with a heroine needle in my arm? Smoking pot? Hanging out with gangs with guns? Compared, this isn't such a bad thing. This is my way of releiving stress, it could have been something much much worse." After we get past the fact that I am, in fact, into diapers and baby things, I would move on to anything else she wants to know. She would probably ask what I ment by 'we'. Well, theres alot of us out there. Im not the only one by any means. Another question might be like, do you actually use the diapers? Yes, of course. Complete honesty about these things, I want here trust. Once we get past the ackward bump of questions, I would move on to rules. I would not allow her to share this information with anyone, not even dad untill hes ready. She would have to be discreet about it, we never had this conversation. I would then move onto rules that she might like to hear such as I will not wear them while company is around the house. Shes probably worried about her self image as much as I am. Also, she might ask how I get my diapers. I buy them, from stores and I hide them in my room, And use them whenever I need some help with my life.

After this it depends on her response. She could verywell be getting me diapers for christmas (which would be wonderful but I would rather get them myself, unless there good ones that you get online then by all means.) or she could be very disgusted. If she was disgusted, I would move on to a quote of hers "There is nothing wrong with being gay, I just don't like it" By she just doesnt like it meaning, she doesn't like it. Its not wrong, she just finds it displeasing. No offence to the gays around here BTW. So why not TB/DLism? Couldn't you accept that for what it is too? You can pretend it never happened, just walk away from it and say nothing more. Tell dad, get his opinion (as I don't think he want to hear it from me). I would deal with him the same way except expecting a more hostile answer.

I have it all planned out, I will be okay if I fallow it. This is what my parents are like, I have lived with them for 15 years so I know them pretty well. I fallow a motto, expect the unexpected. With this as my guide rule, my plan on my back and all the information in my hands, I will pull through.

I would also show her this site, show her how large a community we are, how we are not a bunch of crazy folks who wear diapers. We are mature, normal, good minded people. We all have lifes and we choose to take advantage of one of the most wonderful aspects of life, childhood.

So.. uh.. yeah thats my 2 cents... thanks for listening...

[dprdinky]

Impressive oblivionxi1 you have it well thought out. Just wondering how many of us would be able to do it, like you say and get good response from parents.

I hope it works out for you though.

[oblivionxi1]

Yeah, lol. I like to think things out like that. If I were anyone else, I wouldn't use MY response, this one is based around my parents and how I think they would react.

I posted a thread about it, turns out alot of people would rather lie a keep the secret than completly come out. Make sense and its totally understandable. If you can pull it off with a lie or two I think thats a good way out.

Also, this response is more like guidlines than something I would (or could for that matter) fallow to the letter. It would sooo not play out this way. I just use it as a reference to make sure I do it right it any situation that might come up.

Good question, I was happy to answer. I got it down on paper (well, not paper) which helped me remember it a bit easier.

[Martin]

And use them whenever I need some help with my life.

You may want to think that one over. Sounds negative opinion.

[oblivionxi1]

Originally Posted by Martin

You may want to think that one over. Sounds negative opinion.

I dont see how, I could change it to something about relieving stress if its somehow bad though. Also I wrote it at 2am, I was a little tired at the time.

Ah, well. Its not like im going to use it to the letter, it wont play out this way. As I said before (again with my siggy) expect the unexpected. It will probably be a completely different situation therefore completely different answers. I imagine she'll probably find a used one in the trash can outside or something and come in like "WTF is that?" (more or less, hopfully less) or she'll say nothing about it. My mom being my mom though, she would look for the most logical answer to why there are goodnites in the garbage can again.


UPDATE: GAH CRAP! I just had another close call! I walked out the door to dispose of my disposable and checked to see if it was clear, I thought it was so I walk around the house to get to the trash can. I opened it and tossed the diaper inside, turned around and it turns out my next door neighbor was in his car. The space between our houses is clearly visible from their driveway but luckily he wasn't looking at me. He had his head in the glovebox of his car for some reason. He sat up and waved at me, I waved back but he seamed to know I did something. Hopfully this doesn't turn out bad...

[applebeary]

Had a very close call earlier. While mom was out of the house I decided to splurge and chill out on the couch in a t-shirt and my diaper on. I sat there and watched some Fairly Odd Parents to amuse myself for a bit, and drank from the new bottle I got, which I filled with chocolate milk. Later on I rinsed it out and left it in the dish dryer, got dressed, and fell asleep on the couch in the living room. When my mother came home with the kids, my siblings (ranging from 8-14 in age) one of them looked over and said 'Is that a bottle in the dryer?' I had woken up from the noise of the door opening, but them asking that made my stomach flip. My mom started giggling and asked me if I had been drinking from it, so I lied casually and told her I washed it out and was going to use it as a joke for a friend of mine. Thankfully, they all let it drop, and it's safely put away now, but god damn I almost peed myself in the middle of that moment, thinking my mom would come to the conclusion. Ah well. Good thing, even if I did pee -laughs-

[db2379]

My closest was a few years ago, my parents were supposed to be out late 12-1am. I figured I would diaper up, so I did....I filled it and right as I did, I herd them pull up at like 6pm, I think oh ****. I'm standing here in a wet and messy diaper with no way to easily get rid of it. I threw on my robe and grabbed something to change into and acted like I was going to the shower just in time for them to come into my room saying they were home early. I managed to get in the shower and get cleaned up, but I know they suspected something because 1) I was in my robe before my shower...very unusual. 2) a shower at 6pm...I never do that, and 3) I'm sure they got a whiff of the smell.

They never said anything about it though.


Then another time I was sitting at my computer in nothing but a diaper and my mom just walks in my room at like 11pm, she never comes in here that late....which is why I was in just a diaper! Thankfully my room was dark with only my monitor lighting the room and she didn't see anything. If she did all she would have seen is a white outline and thought it was my underwear.

[spikerbond]

The closest I have ever been to being caught is when my mom was cleaning out my room and she found one of my diapers. She did not confront me or anything, she just put it in the garbage pile. I was able to rescue it later that day.

[Johnathon]

Originally Posted by DiaperLines

I was just reminded of this one: My sophmore year of college I went on a two week trip to Paris. Before I left I had cleaned up my room and decided to get rid //of //the /spare diapers I //had //in //case //my roommate got ///snoopy /while I was gone. When I was on /the plane I realized that I never //threw /away //the ////trash bag with the diapers in it. I just left it at the front door and forgot about it. What is worse is that //the /diapers were /at ///the /top of the bag. //I decided //that there was nothing I could do about it and adopted the //"I /don't //really /give /a //crap" /attitude. Long /story /short I never heard anything about it from my roomie, so I assumed he never noticed.

What the hell is up with all of the // marks? Makes it really hard to read and is annoying.

[marksparktbdl]

i was 8/9 and it was late at night i was wearing a diaper a tiny one for my bro and i wet it and it leaked so i put it in the trash bin in ma room in the moarning i acame down the stairs blah blah. my dad came down with the bin and said smell this in his hand he had the bin i smelt it, it stunk of piss lol i was sooooooo nervios