Diaper wearers vs diaper users.

[softndry]

Originally Posted by Lukie

Put simply, to some people the fetish is to do with the diaper, not using it. How it feels, how it looks, smells, touch, etc... It's all to do with how the diaper invigorates that person's senses. Yes, the "whole point to a diaper" is to use it, but that sensation may not be why the person is attracted to them at all.

To be honest, I think using a diaper is treading more into AB territory. A person can be a diaper lover, but not an AB.

Lukie speaks exactly to my DL activities. My diaper wearing is only for the look, smells (powder,love that smell), how the diapers feels when tightly pinned, for me wearing diapers is truly about the sensations I receive both physically and mentally. So for me it is sensations not wetting or other uses of diapers.

[Jag]

I usually use them when I'm padded up, but still, it's nice to just enjoy the nice comfort of a diaper. I often prefer to go to the bathroom right before padding up so I could enjoy the feeling of a clean diaper for a bit. In other words, I like both sides.

[LuvsGurl]

Originally Posted by softndry

Lukie speaks exactly to my DL activities. My diaper wearing is only for the look, smells (powder,love that smell), how the diapers feels when tightly pinned, for me wearing diapers is truly about the sensations I receive both physically and mentally. So for me it is sensations not wetting or other uses of diapers.

Now maybe it is because I am new to the world of DL and AB but as far as I can see the reverse is more likely for a physiological reasoning. Really if one is to say that DL like the object then you would like it for it's usage, for what it is, and how you can bring it into your life. I know that I use mine and have no need to think about the social aspect of it.

This brings me to the other group. The AB would be more likely to have it as a status symbol. They may use it though it is more from the need to have a feeling of helplessness. This would be about what the Diaper means not what it is and what it is for. About the Social significance that one would equate with being cared for.

Last of all one must think a great deal about the difference between someone that wears diapers because they like diapers, feel, use.... and those who like the way they make them fell (aka Fetish) we can not say that everyone on this site equates diaper and Sex witch is what Fetish means.

I know that there are many grey areas though I think this is a far better break down then saying that there are AB and DL and nothing else.