Failed meetings

[Tommy]

Why let a bad experience hold you back?

[Calico]

Originally Posted by Scalie

I'm so nerve racked right now.

I don't go out often wearing diapers, or even planning on getting all padded up when I've reached my destination. I usually keep the padding as a bedroom thing only.

However, this last week I met another diaperfur online. We had planned to meet up at a mutual friends place to play some Magic and hang out padded. I've never really done this before, and I was quite nervous. However, I was also really excited. I've wanted to hang out with other diaperfurs in a normal setting where were just hanging out and playing games. It's sort of the one thing I only want to do while padded, sit around and play card games, video games, etc.

Well, after arriving at my friends place, I found out he wasn't really interested in...eh, anything i suppose, and then the other guy who I had been chatting with never showed up. It made me feel very awkward and out of place. Like, I had tried to set something up that people just didn't want to do. Only, I was under the impression that they were totally down for it. I haven't really gone out and tried to meet too many other DLs before and this was sorta my first attempt to hang out and get to know one of the locals.

So there I was, at my friends place watching a Harry Potter movie with my padding and Magic in my backpack and this thought gong through my mind, "WTF was I thinking".

Honestly, I was so scared about how the whole thing had played itself out I got up and left early. Now I'm thinking that it was such a bad idea, I'm not going to make another attempt. I don't think I could handle that again.

Anyone else have a similar story?

I once tried to meet a man near me when I was 18 and we agreed three o clock so I show up at the park and wait twenty minutes and I leave. Turns out the guy was there early and left and I was a little upset because he arrived before the time we agreed to meet and he came early and left. Annoying I know when people don that, especially when they arrive late but I know there could be reason why they be late, bad traffic, lost track of time, something bad must have happened.

Just wow what happened to you because they all faked the interest it looks like and they couldn't even be honest with you. Sounds like one of those games people play.