These are the rules of ADISC. They exist to make sure our community is safe and friendly for both teens and adults alike.
These rules are enforced both by the community (using reputation/karma) and by moderators (using bans).
Short Version (aka: the Golden Rules)
Be honest.
Be polite.
Follow moderator instructions.
Long Version
Those Golden Rules give you a basic understanding of what we want. To be a bit more specific, this section contains guidelines on how to interpret the Golden Rules. Some rules have an extended version with examples for good and bad behavior; access it by clicking on the "show" button.
Behavior towards other members:
Be tactful!
Do not purposely insult, offend, ridicule or bully other members.
Do not ask other members creepy questions, such as whether they will meet you in real life, what their bra size is, what clothes they are wearing in real life, etc.
Do not make creepy/annoying comments about your kinks. Complaining loudly that you need a diaper change isn't going get someone to change you.
Show respect towards other members, especially those from other cultures/countries than your own. Don't stereotype people based on their country of origin.
Choose your words wisely, especially in threads in the Mature Topics forum, and in any thread where a member is talking about their personal problems. Silly or offensive content may easily hurt others' feelings, or cause drama.
Avoid any posts that could potentially cause drama.
Don't make posts telling other people what to do, or what not to do, on the forum. That is the mods' job. If you see someone acting badly, contact the mods about it.
Do not lie!
We want to get to know the real you, so please:
Sign up with your correct age, date of birth and sex/gender.
Don't post any fake stories about TB/AB/DL experiences you never had.
Stick with the truth when telling us about yourself.
People on this forum are good at detecting lies. If you lie, they will find out, and you will likely be banned from the site as a result. It is OK if you want to keep some things a secret. You are not required to answer the questions other members ask. If you do answer, though, be honest.
Keep the discussion mature!
When voicing criticism, or an opinion which might be interpreted as criticism, do so in a mature and helpful way. If the criticism gets interpreted as a personal attack on the other person, then you have probably made a mistake.
Don't use babytalk outside the "RolePlay" and "Stories" forums.
Take a light-hearted approach to messages that are obviously meant as a joke, even if you may not find it funny. Different people have different kinds of humor.
Forum Content:
Do not promote self-destructive things, like self harm or drug use.
This includes discussing:
Unhealthy or dangerous methods used to 'go' in diapers.
Taking drugs, or self harm. If you are currently doing these things, and want to stop, consult a qualified medical professional. If you are doing them, and don't want to stop, then don't bring it up here. If you are not doing them, then don't start, because if you do, you will regret it eventually.
Do not promote illegal activities, like drugs, downloading copyrighted material, etc.
Do not post porn, or links to adult-only websites.
Do not spam the forum with useless or silly messages.
No random posts in serious topics or generally anywhere outside of the Thread Games/Fun forum.
No posts that consist of only meaningless pictures!
Do not post links to sites that contain malicious software, or content designed to shock or anger the viewer.
Use of Images
Do not use crotch shots as avatars!
Crotch shots are pictures that show exclusively, or primarily, someone's diaper. Use an avatar that represents you as a whole person!
Do not upload pictures of anyone 15 or younger, at all, even if you have their permission.
Do not upload pictures of 16 or older, unless you have the permission of everyone in the picture.
This includes:
Pictures of your family or friends.
Pictures you have downloaded and/or stolen from other diaper sites, especially when they come from pay sites.
The Reputation System
Members get the opportunity to rate the quality of other members' posts by giving them positive or negative reputation.
When using the reputation system, please use the following guidelines:
Use the reputation button () to give people reputation.
Do not use the reputation system for promoting personal friendships or fighting personal feuds with members. Rate people's contributions from a neutral observer's perspective!
You must provide a valid reason for positive reputation, or the reputation comment will be removed.
Positive reputation should be given only for especially good contributions to the site, irrespective of your own personal opinion on the matter discussed and of whether or not you consider the member a friend or an enemy. Examples include posts which:
demonstrate great kindness
explain something in great detail and contain a lot of wisdom or valuable insights (even if you disagree with the points put forward)
contain content that is very helpful to other members, or to people new to the site.
are exceptionally funny
Do not give positive reputation:
As consolation for someone's bad luck ("sympathy rep")
To cancel out a negative reputation a user has received because you think the negative reputation was not justified
To friends/lovers/etc, just because of your special relationship
In gratitude for a personal favor towards yourself that the site as a whole does not benefit from.
For someone's birthday
Negative reputation should only be given in exceptional circumstances, for acts that reflect badly on ADISC. Examples include spamming, insults to other members, or causing drama. A valid reason must be provided!
Negative reputation should only be a last resort, for people who have screwed up, or are deliberately breaking the rules. If neither of the above applies, you should give them gray (neutral, 0-point) rep first, and explain in your rep comment what they did wrong. If they continue doing it, you can give them negative reputation for it. On the other hand, if they are seriously breaking the rules of ADISC, you should give them negative reputation immediately, and report their post to moderators, using this icon on their post:
Valid reasons to give negative reputation:
Insulting, attacking, ridiculing other members of ADISC.
Spamming the forum with messages that are against the rules.
Disrupting serious discussions/threads with silly or spam messages.
Posting obvious lies. Please think carefully before doing this because not everything that seems unbelievable to you must be a lie. Sometimes, things which seem completely crazy are, actually, the truth! Some people lead lives that most of us wouldn't believe...
Causing drama by purposely posting offensive or controversial messages. Remember that everyone has the right to present their own opinion in a mature manner. Doing so is not a valid reason for neg rep!
Do not give negative reputation if:
You disagree with someone's opinion.
You hate someone on a personal level.
You did not understand someone's joke, but the joke itself is not causing any harm.
Do not write offensive comments or insults into your rep comment! Instead, give suggestions on how the member can improve their behavior! If you curse at someone in a rep comment, or otherwise abuse the system, the rep will be reversed, and you may well be banned from using the rep system.
Do not complain about negative reputation on the public forum!
Reputation comments are reviewed regularly by the admin team, and invalid comments will be removed. People who are found to abuse the rep system regularly, or who post many invalid rep comments, will be temporarily (or permanently!) excluded from giving reputation.
You may request a review of the reputation in the Requests forum. The administrators might reverse it, but that is entirely up to them. If you complain about your negative rep in public, you will get more negative rep and/or a ban from the site.
Moderators
Forum moderators are clearly designated by the bold purple color of their username!
We are friendly, and here to help with any problems you may have! We can be contacted via the Requests forum.
When you see people breaking the rules, alert a moderator by using the report button ().
After alerting a moderator, move on. You need not worry about other people behaving badly. Moderators and the reputation system ensure that the offenders will get what they deserve fairly quickly.
Please don't interfere with the moderators' job by telling people off yourself.
Follow the moderators' instructions!
The IRC Chat
No automated messages (such as 'now playing' announcements), or any other type of spam.
Do not impersonate any other users.
Again, remember the golden rules, and especially the third golden rule: follow moderator instructions.
15-02-2008
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