Your Perfect Partner

[MarkFox]

So, whether you are straight/gay/bi I'm sure a lot of us all have a vision about what we want in our partner or future spouse.

Unmistakeably Gay. I'm not camp, but females do not hold that kind of attraction for me.

Do you want them a guy, girl?

A guy.

Do they have to be in the same age range, older, younger?

I'm not as concerned about this as I once was. I'd currently say between 18 and 30, although it depends on the person. There would have to be no-determinable generation gap, a relationship where neither person knew what they were talking about would not be fun. I would also go down to 16, that is the age of consent here, but there are possible complications.

Do they have to look a certain way?

Just be attractive to me. I know that's vague, but I judge people individually. I could not see myself ever being with somebody fatter than myself, it just doesn't work psychologically. I don't consider someone being deaf or in a wheelchair to affect their looks though, i'm not quite that superficial.

Do they have to have a certain job, or amount of money?

No. But someone who is content to never get a job and live off the state is not someone I could get along with, it doesn't fit with my work ethic. Someone who is of independent means is not the same. However, I would expect anyone who I met, if we moved in together, to make equal contributions to me, not more or less.

Do they have to be abdl? If so, mommy/daddy, baby, or playmate?

Nope, but realistically I would tell them (dishonesty isn't good) and they'd have to accept it, even if they weren't inclined to participate. If they were into it, and other stuff i'm interested in (furry stuff, for example) that would be better still.

Do they have to be good in bed, or does that matter at all?

I'm not overtly sexual, i'm not somebody who has to have sex every hour of every day to feel happy. Someone who mostly enjoys hugging, kissing, relaxing together would be good for me. However, I do enjoy having sex, so the ability to do so would be a must.

Do they have to live near you or are you willing to travel?

I am willing to travel, providing I can get there. For medical reasons (Epilepsy) I can't drive, so if their location didn't have a bus stop (or preferably, a rail station) it would be difficult. I don't think it would be fair to rely on them to pick me up all the time.

Anything else?

They would have to understand me. I'm not perfect, but i'm not a complete waste of time either. I am somewhat complicated though, being slightly paranoid and a little quiet and shy (don't let my forum posts pursuade you otherwise, me IRL is different) which they'd have to be OK with.

MarkFox

[andysetra]

Do you want them a guy, girl?
Guy

Do they have to be in the same age range, older, younger?
Around the same age as me, but I would say somewhere between 18-28...age really doesn't matter to an extent.

Do they have to look a certain way?
Not really. I mean there has to be some attraction obviously, but looks aren't everything. But if he was thin, and looked a little bit emo (without acting emo, of course) that would be awesome

Do they have to have a certain job, or amount of money?
Not a certain job, but definitely *a* job, and some sort of direction in life... I've dated someone who had no direction to leave his fast food job and do something better... it doesn't work out

Do they have to be abdl? If so, mommy/daddy, baby, or playmate?
He don't have to be abdl, but I would him to at least be accepting of my diapers and other fetishes

Do they have to be good in bed, or does that matter at all?
Doesn't really matter... though I could be wrong...

Do they have to live near you or are you willing to travel?
I would want him to live near me... long distance really sucks, even if it's just on the other end of the city... I mean, it wouldn't be a deal breaker or anything, just more of an inconvenice.

Anything else?
Yes, someone who is able to put up with me :P

[Sunni]

Do you want them a guy, girl?
A girl.

Do they have to be in the same age range, older, younger?
Same age range. About 2 year age difference at most.

Do they have to look a certain way?
I'd prefer if they were just a bit shorter than me. I wouldn't like an overweight person that much, either.

Do they have to have a certain job, or amount of money?
Not really. It would be better if they made more, though.

Do they have to be abdl? If so, mommy/daddy, baby, or playmate?
It'd be a plus if they would even accept it. But, I guess Baby/Playmate. Sometimes, Mommy.

Do they have to be good in bed, or does that matter at all?
It doesn't matter much.

Do they have to live near you or are you willing to travel?
Preferrably near me.

Anything else? Someone who has a decent education, has at least some interest in video games and anime, is mildly shy, is a vegetarian, wants to have kids (2 girls and a boy), and accepts me for who I am.

Heh. I guess I'm kind of picky...

[Snowboard]

Do you want them a guy, girl?
Girl.

Do they have to be in the same age range, older, younger?
Age doesn't matter TOO much.. Just as long as it's somewhat close.

Do they have to look a certain way?
I don't care about looks too much...
But i wouldn't want her to look/act like a slut. (for lack of a better term )

Do they have to have a certain job, or amount of money?
Money doesn't matter to me.

Do they have to be abdl? If so, mommy/daddy, baby, or playmate?
It would help, and it would help more if she could change roles every now and then.

Do they have to be good in bed, or does that matter at all?
I really just perfer cuddling. :P
If she would be able to sleep on top of me, that would be wonderful.

Do they have to live near you or are you willing to travel?
I'd perfer close.

Anything else?
An off switch for sex

[Maverick]

Do you want them a guy, girl? Girl

Do they have to be in the same age range, older, younger? She can be my age, older, or younger... as long as she's not like 10 years older/younger...

Do they have to look a certain way? I'd like her to be somewhat attractive, but it's not that important.

Do they have to have a certain job, or amount of money? Nope.

Do they have to be abdl? If so, mommy/daddy, baby, or playmate? She doesn't have to be. I'd enjoy being babied every once in a while, but I guess it's not a necessity.

Do they have to be good in bed, or does that matter at all? Does not matter at all...

Do they have to live near you or are you willing to travel? I'm willing to travel.

Anything else? She must be sweet, kind, and caring.

[ade]

perfect partner: disgustingly rich, deaf, dumb, blind and terminally ill.

touching reality: it's a non-issue. i can't even concoct an image of an ideal or perfect partner. the easiest way of summarising it, is to say that everything about me seems geared toward deterring reproduction.

[Kenshin Himura]

Do you want them a guy, girl?
-I'm bi so I don't think it would matter but i'm leaning toward guy at the moment.

Do they have to be in the same age range, older, younger?
-I would like them either the same age as me or older then me up to 3 years or younger then me up to 3 yrs.

Do they have to look a certain way?
-They need to look good, as in cute but that's really it.

Do they have to have a certain job, or amount of money?
-No

Do they have to be abdl? If so, mommy/daddy, baby, or playmate?
-I would like for them to be *b/dl perferably a baby or playmate.

Do they have to be good in bed, or does that matter at all?
-No

Do they have to live near you or are you willing to travel?
-I'm dating someone in NZ so obvusly I don't care where they live. :P

Anything else?
-Nope

[BabyDemon]

Do you want them a guy, girl?
A educated, well rounded, socially adept woman.

Do they have to be in the same age range, older, younger?
I would say + or - 4 years from my current age

Do they have to look a certain way?
They have to take care of themselves. Someone who is concerned enough to make sure they don't look like hell but someone who isn't overly concerned with there appearance.

Do they have to have a certain job, or amount of money?
They should be gainfully employed. I prefer education but if the person is right and they didn't make it through college/university and they have a job they love. Then I suppose that would be alright

Do they have to be abdl? If so, mommy/daddy, baby, or playmate?
No they don't but they have to be at least excepting of my interests. It wouldn't hurt though.

Do they have to be good in bed, or does that matter at all?
Define good in bed? This question should probably read should they be accepting of your short comings in bed. In which case I say yes. I suck I know it. They need to be ok with that

Do they have to live near you or are you willing to travel?
As long as I can find a job, a place to live, and a sense of purpose I'm willing to live most places.

Anything else?
It helps when the family likes me


Also. I'm always thoroughly disappointed when I read that girls need guys to be taller then them. It makes me a sad Demon. While I'm not short short I'm not a giant either. I'd like the chance to show who I am before I get shutdown for being a specific height.

[Ren]

Do you want them a guy, girl?

I do not mind either, but if I must admit, I like pretty girls a bit more than I like pretty boys! o.o

Do they have to be in the same age range, older, younger?

Same age range...though it may vary. i wouldnt mind someone 5 years older or younger than myself though that changes between my current age and theirs...for example I don't think i'd date a 13 year old though thats 5 years less than me o.o. their parents would kill me!

Do they have to look a certain way?

As in specific of blonde, beard or not, or that? No, but good looking yes! ^^

Do they have to have a certain job, or amount of money?

A job? not at all...money doesn't matter either!

Do they have to be abdl? If so, mommy/daddy, baby, or playmate?

if he/she was Abdl then I guess it'd be just perfect o.o, but since Utopias hardly ever become truths I of course don't mind of he/she wasn't! as for the other...well i'd liek to see all the roles but so far I guess I'd be leaning more to me being the baby!

Do they have to be good in bed, or does that matter at all?

I'm a virgin! I wouldn't know!

Do they have to live near you or are you willing to travel?

I'm not used to travel nor do I possess any means of self-transport. For now I'm stuck with the 'they could live by you' part

Anything else?

It's an utopia for merely considering the possibility of someone tolerating me! I can't say i wouldn't try though. Also...it may sound real rude or something but...i really have a hard time with people who are, in summarized words, stupid. Also I've found that people with similar interests help tons with that ^^ If, however, I would ask for one, just one single thing, I would merely like a sincere love, caring, or appreciation for me, for who I am.

[diaperdude]

In order:

Im totally...... Actually, lemme get back to you.

Girl

Younger... atleast a year

Sexy and short

No

Yes, baby

God, yes!

Id rather my SO live close to me, to suit me paranoia