Forum for Parents

fifigal · 29-07-2008

I am not sure if this would be a good idea or not,but has anyone ever suggested having a specific forum for parents who have discovered their child's "infantile" interests.In the short time I've been here at ADISC,quite a few members have either been "found-out" or have wanted to disclose their *B/DL interests to their parents.Most recently,Baby Jester and Lizzie have had to deal with this subject.Does anyone think that a forum where the parents could ask questions/get answers might help?It could be a requirement that everyone posting in this type of forum would have their posts 'Moderated' to prevent anyone,wether with intent of malice or not,from making matters worse between the parents and their offspring.Just a thought,what do you think?

Pojo · 29-07-2008

Well having the thread moderating to keep parents from seeing things, wouldn't help that much, since they would be able to see other things...I also don't think this site would be best to show parents, since there are things that they probably shouldn't

Kams · 29-07-2008

It'd probably be a better idea to have a wiki page on it rather than another sub-forum on here.

fifigal · 29-07-2008

I meant 'Moderated' so a Pedo,D_eker-type individual could not interject anything into a posting that would definately signal danger to an already worried parent.There are some topics here that a parent may find objectionable,but that goes for nearly everywhere on the internet.Compared to most other sites out there,ADISC is a singular exception.This site,for the most part,casts *B/DL's in a positive light.I have found that the people here are not one-dimensional,diaper-freaks.The people here are fairly typical,every-day people that just happen to have an interest in diapers as one of the many other aspects of their lives.I was ,and I still am,just trying to think of someway to help these parents understand that their children are alright,a bit different than the majority,but alright none-the-less.

baby kiffer · 29-07-2008

Maybe parents that sign up for this forum would be restricted to only particular areas of the site, much like newer members?

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However, I've had personal experience with my parents and this website. All they had to do was look over my shoulder to see what I was doing. If they wanted to know something, they could have just asked me and I could have shown them the appropriate posts/threads.

It sounds like a good idea, but I'm not sure it would get enough use out of it to be worth the effort.

Lukie · 29-07-2008

In all honestly, I still think there is too much content on here that if I were a parent (that knew nothing about it), would not like to witness if my child claimed they were an infantilist. The Gallery for starters, plus a select few threads would raise a few alarm bells for me, not to mention the overall nature of this fetish. For a parent to come here seeking out what their child is into, I really don't think this is quite the place.

Although, if they were willing to understand and learn about it, then I have no problems in helping them out and answering questions, provided they come across as legit. But the problem I see is that they will come here, view certain threads or sections of this site and get a false view of what we are about, which would only prove to enhance their insecurities about it all.

In that regard, I don't think a "parents forum" would be all that useful. Besides, how many parents do we get here seeking help anyway? Not many, if any. Nevertheless, I do feel there should be something that parents can read so their impression of the whole thing isn't a clouded judgement based off the site's user-contributed content. Perhaps something in the way of a sticky, or just another out-of-the-way part of the site so the flow for all the regular members here isn't ruined.

Also, just as a final note: people here seem fairly adamant about not creating new forums unless they are absolutely necessary. Considering we don't get many parents asking for help, this isn't a dire case and a new forum (or even a sub-forum) is not required.

Takashi · 29-07-2008

It sounds interesting and good but I think once it's put into action it will be a bad idea.

mzkkbprmt · 29-07-2008

Not necessary. Perhaps a page for parents or something who find the site, but not a forum. A good thing would be for some of the ABs and adult DLs, especially ones who are parents themselves to be available to talk to parents who find this site, and make it easier to get to get to the 'for parents' links.

mm3 · 29-07-2008

Bad bad bad, no no no!! There's wayyy too much content on here that would probably make any parent (especially mine!!) royally freak.

Darkfinn · 29-07-2008

No no no... bad idea. Typically parents who are presented with their child's infantilistic desires are going to go into knee-jerk total lockdown mode b/c they think the kid is some sort of sicko pervert who needs a psych evaluation. Showing them this site with any kind of information to try and educate them is just going to get said kid banned from the internet altogether.

29-07-2008	#1 (permalink)
fifigal Regular Join Date: May 2008 Location: St.Louis,USA Posts: 189 Threads: 7 Reputation: 7	Forum for Parents I am not sure if this would be a good idea or not,but has anyone ever suggested having a specific forum for parents who have discovered their child's "infantile" interests.In the short time I've been here at ADISC,quite a few members have either been "found-out" or have wanted to disclose their *B/DL interests to their parents.Most recently,Baby Jester and Lizzie have had to deal with this subject.Does anyone think that a forum where the parents could ask questions/get answers might help?It could be a requirement that everyone posting in this type of forum would have their posts 'Moderated' to prevent anyone,wether with intent of malice or not,from making matters worse between the parents and their offspring.Just a thought,what do you think?

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29-07-2008	#2 (permalink)
Pojo Changed AIM for privacy Historical Donor Staff Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Cow-Land, VA Age: 18 Posts: 4,385 Threads: 73 Gallery Uploads: 6 Wiki Edits: 111 Blog Entries: 20	Well having the thread moderating to keep parents from seeing things, wouldn't help that much, since they would be able to see other things...I also don't think this site would be best to show parents, since there are things that they probably shouldn't

29-07-2008	#3 (permalink)
Kams Regular Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: USA Age: 15 Posts: 357 Threads: 11 Gallery Uploads: 2 Wiki Edits: 2 Blog Entries: 1 Reputation: 3	It'd probably be a better idea to have a wiki page on it rather than another sub-forum on here.

29-07-2008	#4 (permalink)
fifigal Regular Join Date: May 2008 Location: St.Louis,USA Posts: 189 Threads: 7 Reputation: 7	I meant 'Moderated' so a Pedo,D_eker-type individual could not interject anything into a posting that would definately signal danger to an already worried parent.There are some topics here that a parent may find objectionable,but that goes for nearly everywhere on the internet.Compared to most other sites out there,ADISC is a singular exception.This site,for the most part,casts *B/DL's in a positive light.I have found that the people here are not one-dimensional,diaper-freaks.The people here are fairly typical,every-day people that just happen to have an interest in diapers as one of the many other aspects of their lives.I was ,and I still am,just trying to think of someway to help these parents understand that their children are alright,a bit different than the majority,but alright none-the-less.

29-07-2008	#5 (permalink)
baby kiffer Regular Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: USA Posts: 161 Threads: 14 Gallery Uploads: 15 Blog Entries: 3 Reputation: 5	Maybe parents that sign up for this forum would be restricted to only particular areas of the site, much like newer members? .... However, I've had personal experience with my parents and this website. All they had to do was look over my shoulder to see what I was doing. If they wanted to know something, they could have just asked me and I could have shown them the appropriate posts/threads. It sounds like a good idea, but I'm not sure it would get enough use out of it to be worth the effort.

29-07-2008	#6 (permalink)
Lukie Aysc.qm Historical Donor Staff Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Australia Age: 19 Posts: 2,318 Threads: 30 Gallery Uploads: 7 Wiki Edits: 154 Blog Entries: 39	In all honestly, I still think there is too much content on here that if I were a parent (that knew nothing about it), would not like to witness if my child claimed they were an infantilist. The Gallery for starters, plus a select few threads would raise a few alarm bells for me, not to mention the overall nature of this fetish. For a parent to come here seeking out what their child is into, I really don't think this is quite the place. Although, if they were willing to understand and learn about it, then I have no problems in helping them out and answering questions, provided they come across as legit. But the problem I see is that they will come here, view certain threads or sections of this site and get a false view of what we are about, which would only prove to enhance their insecurities about it all. In that regard, I don't think a "parents forum" would be all that useful. Besides, how many parents do we get here seeking help anyway? Not many, if any. Nevertheless, I do feel there should be something that parents can read so their impression of the whole thing isn't a clouded judgement based off the site's user-contributed content. Perhaps something in the way of a sticky, or just another out-of-the-way part of the site so the flow for all the regular members here isn't ruined. Also, just as a final note: people here seem fairly adamant about not creating new forums unless they are absolutely necessary. Considering we don't get many parents asking for help, this isn't a dire case and a new forum (or even a sub-forum) is not required.

29-07-2008	#7 (permalink)
Takashi Regular Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Brandon, FL Age: 17 Posts: 1,197 Threads: 57 Gallery Uploads: 9 Blog Entries: 14	It sounds interesting and good but I think once it's put into action it will be a bad idea.

29-07-2008	#8 (permalink)
mzkkbprmt Consonants FTW Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Birmingham, United Kingdom Age: 18 Posts: 1,143 Threads: 34 Gallery Uploads: 28 Blog Entries: 18	Not necessary. Perhaps a page for parents or something who find the site, but not a forum. A good thing would be for some of the ABs and adult DLs, especially ones who are parents themselves to be available to talk to parents who find this site, and make it easier to get to get to the 'for parents' links.

29-07-2008	#9 (permalink)
mm3 Metal Militia Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: New York Age: 17 Posts: 1,012 Threads: 62 Gallery Uploads: 3 Wiki Edits: 3	Bad bad bad, no no no!! There's wayyy too much content on here that would probably make any parent (especially mine!!) royally freak.

29-07-2008	#10 (permalink)
Darkfinn Lurker Historical Donor Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Charlotte, NC Age: 24 Posts: 2,720 Threads: 68 Gallery Uploads: 16 Wiki Edits: 4 Blog Entries: 17	No no no... bad idea. Typically parents who are presented with their child's infantilistic desires are going to go into knee-jerk total lockdown mode b/c they think the kid is some sort of sicko pervert who needs a psych evaluation. Showing them this site with any kind of information to try and educate them is just going to get said kid banned from the internet altogether.