Isn't this a great site, with fantastic member. I'm always impressed with someone like Maverick who at 15 has the maturity of a 30 year old. I think Ayanna has given all the info you need. I've been an AB/DL for many, many years. In the beginning, I too went through all the gotta do it, do it, do it, and then get rid of everything in a fit of guilt. To a large degree, it's who we are. Then I got married and did not tell my wife. I lived without probably for the first 7 years of our marriage. Then we moved and went to new jobs, where I had Fridays off to clean house, and for many years I had a great time without anyone knowing. Then I changed jobs and worked 6 days a week. To make a long story short, my wife found out by an internet order, and questioned me. She was very understanding, and even helps facilitate when my mother in law comes to visit. But we have a very close relationship. Because she is diabetic, I have saved her life hundreds of times. Now I help her dialyse at home. We are a team made with love.
From what you say, it does not sound like your girl friend would be too accepting. I would go very slow on the first announcement, with "have you ever just wanted to go back to like, oh I don't know, ...when you were very young, and things were so much more simpler...etc... If she says, "Ooo, that's gross", then warning Will Robinson, and back off. Then you have to decide, do I want to live with her and no diapers? Do I want to live a life going behind her back (not recommended)? Or do I want to live a life alone, maybe for a long time, and cuddle up to my diapers? Only you know her, and only you know your own desires.
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