First of all...you MUST be totally honest with her. I've met too many ABDLs who were married and never told their wives about their little 'quirk' and were miserable for 40 years. So, we already know you have to tell her.
How to tell her? Gently. Don't just blurt out "I like wearing diapers and want someone to baby me!" 'cause she's gonna run so far and so fast!
Try things like "Honey, you know how I like childish things...(insert game or other activity that you enjoy, that she knows about)...well...there's a little more to it than that. Sometimes I like to pretend I'm still a kid. It helps me to get away from the pressures of school/work/life! I like to cuddle my teddy (other plushie/blanket) and just remember how nice it was being a child without a care in the world."
If she takes all that well...you can lead GENTLY into the idea of diapers (maybe on the next visit).
Don't bombard her with information, but don't leave her 'hanging' either. Ask her if she has any questions or concerns? Tell her how it makes you feel.
When she asks questions, and she WILL ask questions, be completely honest with her.
Oh 'n when you do get around to telling her that you like to wear diapers...do NOT ask her to participate. I should repeat that last part...DO NOT (I repeat, DO NOT) ask her to participate! If she wants to...great....if not...well too bad, but perhaps she'll indulge you enough to at least not be bothered by it all.
I personally think it's a bit much to thrust on someone in ONE weekend...so I'd spread it out a bit. AND DEFINITELY make sure that she knows that this in no way detracts from your feelings for her. That you will always treat her as the beautiful woman she is and emphasise that you enjoy being an ADULT, too! (just sometimes you'd like to be a lil kid again)
For the record...I was introduced to infantilism by a guy...sooooo it's not that big a stretch to think she'd at least accept this little 'quirky kink' of yours.
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