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Millenniumfalsehood · 03-09-2008

I'll kind of echo what others have said.

You know what they say about true friends? No, not that they'll be the ones in jail with you saying "Man, that was freaking awesome!!"(though those kind don't hurt either). I'm talking about how a true friend will not judge you based on your faults or eccentricities. The same is, and *must be*, true of any long-term relationship. It shouldn't be centered around the physical end of it, but the deeper stuff in order to survive, and this includes both partners being mature enough to accept each others faults. It's like what Jeff Foxworthy said once:

"You don't get married to get sex! Gettin' married to get sex is like buying a 747 to get free peanuts! If all you want's peanuts there's a lot more cost-efficient ways to get 'em."

If your girlfriend is a *true* friend then she will accept you for who and what you are. If she's not, and thinks less of you for it, you're better off finding someone who'll be accepting of your quirks. Trust me, it's better in the long run.

03-09-2008	#6 (permalink)
Millenniumfalsehood Banned Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Arkansas City, Kansas, USA Age: 20 Posts: 184 Threads: 14 Reputation: 2	I'll kind of echo what others have said. You know what they say about true friends? No, not that they'll be the ones in jail with you saying "Man, that was freaking awesome!!"(though those kind don't hurt either). I'm talking about how a true friend will not judge you based on your faults or eccentricities. The same is, and must be, true of any long-term relationship. It shouldn't be centered around the physical end of it, but the deeper stuff in order to survive, and this includes both partners being mature enough to accept each others faults. It's like what Jeff Foxworthy said once: "You don't get married to get sex! Gettin' married to get sex is like buying a 747 to get free peanuts! If all you want's peanuts there's a lot more cost-efficient ways to get 'em." If your girlfriend is a true friend then she will accept you for who and what you are. If she's not, and thinks less of you for it, you're better off finding someone who'll be accepting of your quirks. Trust me, it's better in the long run.