I think you should definitely tell her; in serious relationships, your partner should always know. Judging by what she said about the UnderJams commercials, she probably won't accept the fact that her boyfriend likes to wear diapers and play baby. But don't be discouraged, people tend to surprise you with stuff like this.
I have never told anyone in real life, so I may not offer the best advice, but here goes...
Before "coming out of the closet," you need to be confident, optimistic, and comfortable with your infantilism. You need to be prepared to face rejection, but not expect it. When you feel ready, just sit down with her one day and directly tell her. Don't write it on a piece of paper or show her a website about it. Just tell her what it is and how it makes you feel. If she accepts it, congratulations! If not, well, I suggest looking for a new girlfriend...
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