What I like about all of the responses here is that there are a wide range of them. Some people get nothing out of being embarrassed, and for others it's a very big thing.
Something I think that's also interesting...I don't think it's been brought up in detail in this thread, but I think in general embarrassment/humiliation seems to be sexually pleasing among *B/DL's. I'm sure there are people who get non-sexual pleasure out of embarrassment, and also people who get sexual pleasure out of non embarrassing *B/DL stuff. But...I wouldn't be surprised if it was a trend that people who like *B/DLism non-sexually also tend to not like embarrassment, and people with sexual pleasures tend to like embarrassment.
Of course, the next huge question would be why some of us like embarrassment and others don't...but that's a complicated question that I doubt anyone has a true answer for.
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